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Therefore is this guy a good catch or red flag to women for dating where the woman is single from age range of late 20s to mid 30s? Please be honest with your vote
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Originally Posted by Firecrackerbday93
To add also. He will not forget your birthday and will surprise you with beautiful flower arrangements on your birthday.
Have to also add is that the person is balding but keeps his head clean. He is tall -6'5. Also lost a ton of weight and is still keeping religiously strict to his diet and is active and still loosing weight. Was 325 pounds at start of last year and has dropped the weight big time but still dresses very nice and gets compliments
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Originally Posted by Firecrackerbday93
Well as far as my previous engagement it just didn't work out and we both ended on mutual agreement. But that is now water under the bridge and I have moved on. As it is best to know if you not ready with the person and it doesn't work out it is smart to move on from what could have been badZ. Plus women have been in previous relationships and I am not the type to knock the person down if they were engaged. Next person I go with can turn out to be a match made in heaven. Nothing wrong with giving someone a chance
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Originally Posted by CapsChick
Clearly the OP is describing himself. Sounds like some people responding needed that clarification.
^^^ Ahaha..
I'm sorry... but posting about yourself in the third person is a red flag in of itself. You paint a fairly perfect picture of yourself. I am a bit taken back. If a date of mine started a conversation about themselves and how well they rate in the dating pool, I think I would be looking for the quickest way to end the date.
Well now I know why my friends tell me not to post questions on city data because most of the users are depressed and immature women over the age of 40 and that explains why I get responses like this.
I'm a happily married woman. Totally confess to being over 40.
Your a little sensitive for a man your age. Are you saying you don't get that young people aren't normally attracted to old people? Do YOU want to date a 60 year old? Why do you think it's any different for the young women you prefer?
Listen, I don't care who you want to date. YOUR the one posting questions on a forum. But you asked a question, and quite a few answered you, and you get all petulant at the honest answers.
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Well now I know why my friends tell me not to post questions on city data because most of the users are depressed and immature women over the age of 40 and that explains why I get responses like this.
Red flag ^^ Unable to take criticism. The original post was disingenuous.
Think of it this way. Would you date a 60 year old?
I don't know about you (I'm in my 40s), but a 60 year old approaching retirement seems fairly old for me. Similarly, I haven't found many in their 20s that are mature enough for my tastes.
Well now I know why my friends tell me not to post questions on city data because most of the users are depressed and immature women over the age of 40 and that explains why I get responses like this.
You want an honest and kind answer to one of your previous posts? I am 22, and I do not find you attractive at all. Besides your physical appearance; which, could have been overlooked if it wasn't for your attitude. This post, which I am responding to, is vile and tries to belittle women who are members on here. You are very full of yourself and cannot handle the truth. You have to be praised no matter what. I would rather date a mature, open-minded, and respectful 20 something year old male than you. And yes, there are plenty of 20 something year old men like that.
If you really want to find your future s/o, learn how to be respectful and work on your personality. Physical attractiveness aside, you have shown why you were talking about red flags. Your attitude is a red flag.It would be kind, wise and mature not to attack anyone on her ever again. You are 40, you should know how to be respectful.
Well now I know why my friends tell me not to post questions on city data because most of the users are depressed and immature women over the age of 40 and that explains why I get responses like this.
Your friends? Are they also bitter single dudes in their 40's who also think it is totally realistic to be with a 22 year old? Because that might be part of the problem right there.
I am telling you, honestly as a woman and a former 20-something, that guys who were a few years older were attractive and interesting, but guys in their forties were like someone's dad hitting on you - it was not enticing.
It's time to grow up and accept your age and place in life and look for a fitting companion.
You want an honest and kind answer to one of your previous posts? I am 22, and I do not find you attractive at all. Besides your physical appearance; which, could have been overlooked if it wasn't for your attitude. This post, which I am responding to, is vile and tries to belittle women who are members on here. You are very full of yourself and cannot handle the truth. You have to be praised no matter what. I would rather date a mature, open-minded, and respectful 20 something year old male than you. And yes, there are plenty of 20 something year old men like that.
If you really want to find your future s/o, learn how to be respectful and work on your personality. Physical attractiveness aside, you have shown why you were talking about red flags. Your attitude is a red flag.It would be kind, wise and mature not to attack anyone on her ever again. You are 40, you should know how to be respectful.
Well obviously I would not date anyone from this site or you. I want to be happy and not depressed and I don't care what reasons you or anyone gives because face it I have seen women in their 20s date or be married to guys in their 40 s and again the guy wasn't rich or anything. It is all about the woman's maturity. If the woman is respectful and mature she will take the chance and be with the guy. And secondly when I go to restaurants near my house I always have women you age in fact showing big interest in my in fact I had a date with one woman who was 23 aNd finished college. We didn't go further because she got a job offer and had to move to another state but we still communicate. So it all depends on the person. As I said I have read posts from other topics that some of these users replied on and it is pathetic about some. Of these users making me think why I even went on this site.
Well obviously I would not date anyone from this site or you. I want to be happy and not depressed and I don't care what reasons you or anyone gives because face it I have seen women in their 20s date or be married to guys in their 40 s and again the guy wasn't rich or anything. It is all about the woman's maturity. If the woman is respectful and mature she will take the chance and be with the guy. And secondly when I go to restaurants near my house I always have women you age in fact showing big interest in my in fact I had a date with one woman who was 23 aNd finished college. We didn't go further because she got a job offer and had to move to another state but we still communicate. So it all depends on the person. As I said I have read posts from other topics that some of these users replied on and it is pathetic about some. Of these users making me think why I even went on this site.
Do you have any idea what you sound like?
Do you think this would sound attractive to any woman of any age?
Do you think this would sound attractive to any woman of any age?
Don't be silly. He totally would have nailed a second date except she had a job offer. He's totally a young chick magnet.
His lack of second dates is merely a case of bad luck..
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I am 22, and I do not find you attractive at all. Besides your physical appearance; which, could have been overlooked if it wasn't for your attitude. This post, which I am responding to, is vile and tries to belittle women who are members on here. You are very full of yourself and cannot handle the truth. You have to be praised no matter what. I would rather date a mature, open-minded, and respectful 20 something year old male than you. And yes, there are plenty of 20 something year old men like that.
