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Old 07-04-2015, 07:45 PM
 
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There is a young lady about 27 YO that I am attracted to. We have been talking about 1 time every other week for about 10 minutes (every time I go to her work) and I think we like each other. She stares pretty hard at me when I'm doing my own thing.

I'm homeless w/out a job living in a nice 2013 $40k car. Life is tough. I think it could be better if I find someone to give me empathy and encouragement.

What I have going for me is that I'm cute, nice and I listen to her. I keep myself maintained and do not look the part of a homeless 41 YO living in his car. There is a high possibility she knows my status.

I'm looking for your thoughts on what I should do. I could ask her out with x reasons or do not ask her out for x reasons and the impact would by xyz.
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Old 07-04-2015, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Canada
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You've been out of work for two years and are homeless. Nothing else should be a priority but finding employment again. People might sympathize with your situation, but you have nothing to offer yourself right now, let alone anyone else.
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Old 07-04-2015, 10:00 PM
 
Location: SacTown
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Dude you're broke find a job
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Old 07-04-2015, 10:39 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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You have your priorities all mixed up.
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Old 07-04-2015, 11:06 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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No job, homeless in a 40k car?

Ok buddy
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Old 07-04-2015, 11:07 PM
 
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You've been out of work for two years and are homeless. Nothing else should be a priority but finding employment again. People might sympathize with your situation, but you have nothing to offer yourself right now, let alone anyone else.
It's a nice car though!
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Old 07-04-2015, 11:09 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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how is he getting web access?? Cruising around neighborhoods and hoping someone doesn't have their wifi on lockdown???
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Old 07-04-2015, 11:18 PM
 
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Sounds like I need my chit together first. Thanks for the feedback!
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Old 07-05-2015, 12:14 AM
 
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Find a woman that has money. Give it to her so good that she wants to help you out financially. Women do it all the time.
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Old 07-05-2015, 12:46 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Find a woman that has money. Give it to her so good that she wants to help you out financially. Women do it all the time.
Wow, I did the dating thing way wrong
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