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I've seen this question on other places, and a lot of men seem surprisingly accepting. Now an actual X rated movie star? That's a big no no.
In the other thread about "would you date a porn star", I also voted that I would. Again, it is a job... no more no less. However, it takes more than a sex industry based job to make me interested in her.
There was another about dating a prostitute... you can look it up.
I have yet to understand people's obsession with women who have done sex related work for living...
In the other thread about "would you date a porn star", I also voted that I would. Again, it is a job... no more no less. However, it takes more than a sex industry based job to make me interested in her.
There was another about dating a prostitute... you can look it up.
I have yet to understand people's obsession with women who have done sex related work for living...
In America, we believe in "hard work". We dislike people with silver spoons in their mouth (people that were born rich, and got all the right jobs because of who their parents were and connections) and people (mostly women) using their sexuality to get ahead. It's seen as cheating the system, since sex is such a easy thing to sell. To become a nude model requires just about no experience or skill (besides knowing how to be photogenic) It's considered "not a real job" because there's no hard work involved. Though I disagree, because posing in a set under hot lamps trying not to break a sweat, sounds like a lot. If you're famous enough there's conventions, meet n greets, signing autographs, reading fan mail. It's hard work, but not your standard blue collar American hard work.
Also there's that old Christian guilt. Posing nude is a Jezebel move.
I think Porn stars should just stick to dating other porn stars, find someone that understands them. Or date one of their hardcore fans.
In America, we believe in "hard work". We dislike people with silver spoons in their mouth (people that were born rich, and got all the right jobs because of who their parents were and connections) and people (mostly women) using their sexuality to get ahead. It's seen as cheating the system, since sex is such a easy thing to sell. To become a nude model requires just about no experience or skill (besides knowing how to be photogenic) It's considered "not a real job" because there's no hard work involved. Though I disagree, because posing in a set under hot lamps trying not to break a sweat, sounds like a lot. If you're famous enough there's conventions, meet n greets, signing autographs, reading fan mail. It's hard work, but not your standard blue collar American hard work.
Also there's that old Christian guilt. Posing nude is a Jezebel move.
I think Porn stars should just stick to dating other porn stars, find someone that understands them. Or date one of their hardcore fans.
Yup I fully understand this sentiment. It is not an uncommon one. It is however inaccurate. No woman living a "normal" life with a "normal" job would say that working a sex related job is "easy". It is not... and so few can do it. It is difficult work for themselves and their family. Much of the difficulties originate from society itself.
There are two loves in my life that have remolded my perceptions of the world. My wife and my previous girlfriend. Both started as friendships but unexpectedly became something more... albeit at different paces.
I owe my wife my empathy and big heart for others... she is a great mother and works with special needs children. She helped me through personal issues and although our relationship is not perfect by any means we are both partners in the truest sense. I've known my wife for over 20+ years (married 14+). We were friends and roommates in the beginning even as I was dating my previous.
My previous girlfriend who has showed me true strength, passion, and the ability to see people with clarity. More importantly never to judge. She was handed a very difficult life with very little options (abandoned with children... limited English). We continued to be good friends till we placed distance between us just a few months ago. However, no matter how mundane/small my problems were in comparison to her own, she always listened and never judged. And yes... She worked as a stripper (initially when I met her) and later turned to prostitution. Our relationship endured but ultimately came to an end because we were both in no position to support each other. Very few can do what she does and still carry on a normal life elsewhere. She doesn't drink nor do drugs.. provides for her children and pushes them to better then herself. The last time I saw her, she chided me for even having an extra beer beyond my normal limit of 2... (because she cared). Till this day... I still think of her. No it is not an ideal life and very difficult work... but it is her life and she is doing the best she can. I doubt many would trade places with her.
There are a lot of true "easy: jobs that pull in millions in earnings. However sex work gets the brunt of criticism.
Which again... leads me to my first thought... Why all of the obsession over women in sex work? Why not models (not adult.. magazine for example) if it is really about effort at work? Or entertainment... or other "easy" jobs.
Yup I fully understand this sentiment. It is not an uncommon one. It is however inaccurate. No woman living a "normal" life with a "normal" job would say that working a sex related job is "easy". It is not... and so few can do it. It is difficult work for themselves and their family. Much of the difficulties originate from society itself.
There are two loves in my life that have remolded my perceptions of the world. My wife and my previous girlfriend. Both started as friendships but unexpectedly became something more... albeit at different paces.
I owe my wife my empathy and big heart for others... she is a great mother and works with special needs children. She helped me through personal issues and although our relationship is not perfect by any means we are both partners in the truest sense. I've known my wife for over 20+ years (married 14+). We were friends and roommates in the beginning even as I was dating my previous.
My previous girlfriend who has showed me true strength, passion, and the ability to see people with clarity. More importantly never to judge. She was handed a very difficult life with very little options (abandoned with children... limited English). We continued to be good friends till we placed distance between us just a few months ago. However, no matter how mundane/small my problems were in comparison to her own, she always listened and never judged. And yes... She worked as a stripper (initially when I met her) and later turned to prostitution. Our relationship endured but ultimately came to an end because we were both in no position to support each other. Very few can do what she does and still carry on a normal life elsewhere. She doesn't drink nor do drugs.. provides for her children and pushes them to better then herself. The last time I saw her, she chided me for even having an extra beer beyond my normal limit of 2... (because she cared). Till this day... I still think of her. No it is not an ideal life and very difficult work... but it is her life and she is doing the best she can. I doubt many would trade places with her.
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There are a lot of true "easy: jobs that pull in millions in earnings. However sex work gets the brunt of criticism.
Because selling sex revolves little to no skill, and it's considered indecent behavior. Not ladylike, no Godly woman would do such a thing(if you're the religious type) you have whorish tendencies, low self esteem, daddy issues, and other. Don't even think about if you're a mother (Kim Kardashian) Once you're a mom your sex appeal needs to be thrown out a window. Mothers are almost on the same level of virgins, purity wise. Mothers shan't be sexual objects. I've read that teenage boys need to see there mother as "asexual".
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Which again... leads me to my first thought... Why all of the obsession over women in sex work? Why not models (not adult.. magazine for example) if it is really about effort at work? Or entertainment... or other "easy" jobs.
I was thinking the exact same thing, man. Fashion modeling is ok, but once the clothes come off HOLD THE PHONE. I guess fashion modeling is considered more tame because your modeling actually has purpose. Which is to show off clothes to general public. Nude modeling is meant to entice and arouse the men and lesbians who buy it. You're selling sex appeal, something that is not deemed useful in the real world outside of sexual situations. Also, jealous women won't like the idea of their boyfriends/husbands relieving themselves to your naughty pictures.
You started this thread not out of discussion, curiosity, interest, or to expand one's understanding. It was purely to judge. Feel better?
Go on... (without me)
btw.. my previous GF, found strength in God (I am not religious which was one of our differences). She carries a Saint Nicholas pendant in her purse which I gifted her. She also wears a cross. She always carried the Bible in her native language. She referred it to as a guide so that she can give me the advice I needed to hear. She knows that God would not approve. I reminded her God is not necessarily represented by those in church... and he would be happy with the sacrifice you give to your children.
God looks after all his creatures and I hope (if he exists) is looking after her in my absence.
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