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me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now. We got together when he came over to france (where I live) and we have been together ever since. The only problem is that he lives in the Uk. I go over when I can get the time off and when I went over this time I found some text messages on his phone.. He was meeting up with "a sex worker" for sex. I don't know if anyone has been cheated on but when I found out I thought I was going to collapse, I was planning on not telling him that I knew to see if he'd tell me but I couldn't keep it to myself. When I finally calmed down he told me that he did because he likes really rough sex and he wanted to try it with me but he was too scared of hurting me and of me feeling ashamed of him. I don't really know what to do... Has anyone experienced a similar situation ? Can anyone give me advice ?
Thank you
Well there's not much advice to give. You need to ask yourself
Can you forgive him for cheating, and can you trust him again.
If you don't feel you can do that, it's best to break-up with him, because you'd always be wondering and worrying if he's sleeping with someone else.Without trust, a relationship won't work. because if you don't trust, you'll always be wondering if whatever they tell you is a lie.
But, if you can forgive and forget, then you could try some of the rougher stuff he's interested in.
It's something that involves alot of thought, and discussion with your partner.
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