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Lol apparently though, you don't look better IRL!.
If you did, you would get some dates!
Right?
I agree that's what would make sense
The problem is when I get 50 strangers a week telling me that I'm very handsome. I don't know what to believe. I look in the mirror and I'm very please with what I see.
My point is though that I'm not going after supermodels and I'm not hideous myself. I don't think I'm unreasonable in my standards at all
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And someone can be very handsome and still just be a ginormous turn off, btw, think Tom Brady. The indefinable something.
LOL it's not hard to understand why people despise Brady and the Patriots
He's an arrogant **********.
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Perhaps its rating everyone without even getting to know them first, that is a turn off?
I'm rating people because you said I need to set my sights lower
50 strangers a week tell you youre handsome = you must be a Precious Rare Pearl.
Those girls are too intimidated by your handsomeness maybe.
I never implied that directly or indirectly
I'm not hideous and I'm not going after supermodels. I'm a normal 26 year old dude who takes care of himself and I just want the same thing in my partner
The problem is when I get 50 strangers a week telling me that I'm very handsome. I don't know what to believe. I look in the mirror and I'm very please with what I see.
My point is though that I'm not going after supermodels and I'm not hideous myself. I don't think I'm unreasonable in my standards at all
LOL it's not hard to understand why people despise Brady and the Patriots
He's an arrogant **********.
I'm rating people because you said I need to set my sights lower
and we were talking purely physical there.
So...people say you are attractive yet you are finding dating difficult. So there is your answer. You know what they say, talk is cheap. Proof is in the pudding!
I said that 99.9% of the world would slaughter somebody to live my quality of life while still being able to save 6+K a month after taxes. **** I can't even believe myself sometimes that I'm in this position.
I'm not saying that this should mean that I have dating success, I understand money means nothing in dating which is totally fine. I'm just saying that makes it very very hard for me to change my situation.
My presentation is excellent - my body language is great and I always dress like a million bucks when I go out.
It sounds like you have an image that you are portraying vs. being who you really are at the core.
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Originally Posted by brantleygilbert
Everything else in life makes a lot of sense, dating just continues to baffle me
Only to you.
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