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Old 09-20-2015, 12:44 PM
 
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Separate rooms.
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Old 09-20-2015, 12:47 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Oh no, This guy is involved environmental and humanitarian causes, we have all his info he has a high profile in DC. He just want to show her France, he is not forcing things, thats why he suggested separate rooms. I personally feel he is a good guy but wanted to hear opinions from you guys. she asked for my opinion because we are like sisters.

I think she should get separate rooms too.
Oh, I bet he does.
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Old 09-20-2015, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Oh, I bet he does.
He sees London, he sees France ...

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Old 09-20-2015, 12:52 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Maybe he said he wants to show her the Eiffel Tower and she misunderstood.
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Old 09-20-2015, 01:03 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Then she shouldn't hop on a plane with a stranger.
Too soon to go on a trip in my opinion.
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Old 09-28-2015, 07:34 AM
 
Location: Location: Location
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One date does not a relationship make. A relationship progresses from getting to know a person and deciding whether or not their flaws are minor. Neither of them knows enough about the other to take an extended trip together to a foreign country.

I vote for separate rooms - his in France and hers in her own home. But the only vote that counts is hers and we all have a pretty good idea of how that's going.
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Old 09-28-2015, 08:01 AM
 
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Do you want my honest opinion?

The guy is testing your friend to see if she'll have sex with him. Hence the nonchalant question about the rooms. Very slick, he practiced this line before


She should talk to him about wanting sex after commitment. I assume she doesn't want a hookup?

The trip to France is a distraction, he's hoping the trip and hotel setup will make her feel obliged to him. Tell her to carry enough money for a hotel and flight back.

What's so difficult to see?
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Old 09-28-2015, 08:22 AM
 
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One date does not a relationship make. A relationship progresses from getting to know a person and deciding whether or not their flaws are minor. Neither of them knows enough about the other to take an extended trip together to a foreign country.

I vote for separate rooms - his in France and hers in her own home. But the only vote that counts is hers and we all have a pretty good idea of how that's going.
My vote is the same as yours. Why would anyone go on a trip that involves hotel stay with a complete stranger? Risky, risky.
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Old 09-28-2015, 08:24 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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He has "a high profile in DC"? Trust me, the guy is a power broker type and expects sex in exchange for the trip.
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Old 09-28-2015, 08:40 AM
 
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What bothers me is why do you talk about his high profile career in the DC? His career has nothing to do with his moral character. A scum is still a scum with the highest humanitarian causes.

I think you and your friend got blinded by what he does, not who he is as a person.

He does not sound like a gentleman to me. Show her France whilst he's there for conferences? Possibility to sharing a room for sex.

I don't know how young you and your friend are, this man knows what he is doing.


Everyone here giving you advice has a point. Hope your friend take on board before she becomes his France hookup.
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