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Sorry I made a post yesterday and explained things ..thought some people wouldn't want to read the same things again
That's ok kelly no need to apologise I missed that thread as well I'm afraid but yes you seem a genuinely nice girl find someone that actually wants YOU and deserves YOU
Messing around with someone in a relationship is a dangerous game believe me
That's why I said nothing could happen
In hindsight I should of left him on the couch
Well, that's not true, is it? With this new GF/baby information, let's be honest here, Kelly, dig down deep, you knew what you were doing.
Your only beef was that you were on your period.
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Originally Posted by Kellyanne29
I am such a worrier I can't help but obsess over things.
Basically there was a guy who I was friends with and stupidly decided to share a bed.
I thought he had feelings for me and anyway at the time I was still on my period.
He started getting quite frisky and I explained the situation and he said I don't care if your on your period we will still have sex.
Anyway I kept saying I really can't blah blah so I turned over and he kept touching me( don't get me wrong if I hadn't been on my period I would of been comfortable)
He put his hands in my underwear and was pulling them down..I said look I thought we were friends blsh blsh and he said when will I have a chance to be in your bed again.
Then I thought he isn't going to give in ( and if I hadn't of been on period I would of probsbly gave in anyway)
I didn't feel comfortable at all as I was bleeding etc.
We had sex then he said ..no blood anyway.
I have feelings for this guy I can't help it but I can't help but think he didn't care I was uncomfortable as long as he got sex.
Previous day he was telling me how he had feelings for me etc
Was being in bed too much temptation
Now I'm thinking was me being on my period and feeling uncomfortable a reason why he's backed off now
The more you post about this guy, the worse he sounds, and the more it shows he didn't care anything about you. So in addition to the info we already have, he also didn't care that you were hesitant for sex, and pushed anyhow. That's a clear sign of someone not caring. because if they cared for you, they wouldn't like you doing anything under duress.
Plus, he did tell you he had a life with his girlfriend and baby, and that sex would mess up the friendship. He didn't lie. He got sex, which he wanted, and now he's gone back to his girlfriend and baby, until he wants more sex and favors from you.
There is so many negatives about him I don't know why I'm attracted
His sister ( my friend ) has told me he tells his gf she's fat,ugly a s*** tells his family she gives him nothing sexually.
Last week he told his mum he wished she was dead then went home and his gf rang his mum telling her that he said he was going to punch her all over.
He text his cousins gf saying that his cousin hated her and was going to leave her.
Then told his other cousin he hated him
So he does sound like he has issues that stem deep
His gf told his mum she doesn't know what to do anymore and she's tried with him but nothing works
Maybe it wasn't me ..maybe it's him
There is so many negatives about him I don't know why I'm attracted
His sister ( my friend ) has told me he tells his gf she's fat,ugly a s*** tells his family she gives him nothing sexually.
Last week he told his mum he wished she was dead then went home and his gf rang his mum telling her that he said he was going to punch her all over.
He text his cousins gf saying that his cousin hated her and was going to leave her.
Then told his other cousin he hated him
So he does sound like he has issues that stem deep
His gf told his mum she doesn't know what to do anymore and she's tried with him but nothing works
Maybe it wasn't me ..maybe it's him
Sounds a right charmer lol
Get out NOW before you get burned simply because it sounds like he's not worth the hassle
I know ..I think I fell for what I thought he was like in my head and all his lines
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simply because it sounds like he's not worth the hassle
