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Old 09-20-2015, 03:34 AM
 
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I am such a worrier I can't help but obsess over things.
Basically there was a guy who I was friends with and stupidly decided to share a bed.
I thought he had feelings for me and anyway at the time I was still on my period.
He started getting quite frisky and I explained the situation and he said I don't care if your on your period we will still have sex.
Anyway I kept saying I really can't blah blah so I turned over and he kept touching me( don't get me wrong if I hadn't been on my period I would of been comfortable)
He put his hands in my underwear and was pulling them down..I said look I thought we were friends blsh blsh and he said when will I have a chance to be in your bed again.
Then I thought he isn't going to give in ( and if I hadn't of been on period I would of probsbly gave in anyway)
I didn't feel comfortable at all as I was bleeding etc.
We had sex then he said ..no blood anyway.
I have feelings for this guy I can't help it but I can't help but think he didn't care I was uncomfortable as long as he got sex.
Previous day he was telling me how he had feelings for me etc
Was being in bed too much temptation
Now I'm thinking was me being on my period and feeling uncomfortable a reason why he's backed off now
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:35 AM
 
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The day after he text saying "it was good fun"
I felt a bit cheap
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:37 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Bloody hell!!! That's a strange one

He must have a fetish of some sort think your lucky he's backed off
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:38 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Same dude that played you? Or someone else?
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:40 AM
 
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Same guy.
I'm trying to break things down and work out if it was me who did something wrong
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:40 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Bloody hell!!! That's a strange one

He must have a fetish of some sort think your lucky he's backed off
lol!
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:50 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Same guy.
I'm trying to break things down and work out if it was me who did something wrong
Don't blame yourself as a man I know better not to be even on the same street! as a women on her period ( as they are in pain and have a even shorter temper than normal ) let alone get ' that' close to a woman he must of had a death wish

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lol!
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:54 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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lol!
I can't tell if that was pure Englishman talk, or if it's related to the topic. lol



OP, that may be why he backed off, but if you do like him, you should talk to him about it. I don't really think you did anything wrong.
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:56 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I can't tell if that was pure Englishman talk, or if it's related to the topic. lol



OP, that may be why he backed off, but if you do like him, you should talk to him about it.
Both

And honestly kelly yes have you actually asked him?
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Old 09-20-2015, 03:57 AM
 
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I can't tell if that was pure Englishman talk, or if it's related to the topic. lol



OP, that may be why he backed off, but if you do like him, you should talk to him about it. I don't really think you did anything wrong.
He has a gf and young baby so maybe that is why he backed off.
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