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If whatever is at the root of your behavior can be controlled by medication, you might consider an MD that can diagnose the condition properly and prescribe the correct meds and dosages, instead of - or in combination with - seeing a "therapist".
I don't understand the problem....the fix is super simple. Stop having a boyfriend, and just go out and have random sex with strangers. Always be on the lookout for fresh meat, since you do not want to risk them getting attached. Have many sources for hookups, all the OLD sites, apps, join a swingers club. Maybe you suffer from "bored mouth syndrome", but seriously oral sex, is sex..
Another observation is the magnitude of the cheating on your boyfriend. I don't understand why you are still with the guy. You don't respect him, especially since he knows and still stays with you. Is your self esteem that low that you can't even leave a man you obviously couldn't give a sh..over? There is nothing wrong with enjoying the company of another person, no matter how brief it is.
what am i supposed to do
how am i going to come to grips with that when its mentally messed me up i have no self esteem i hate my looks i hate everything about myself and its all because of that so i sleep with multiple men to try and make myself feel better and it works for the time being
So far you already have all the answers in response to what others have posted so I am not sure what the real issue is.
i can't stop cheating..... i just can't no matter how hard i try i can't stop doing it it makes me feel good about myself
i seriously need help someone give me advice i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now and i have cheated over 14 times
he knows about alot of them but he doesnt know i have actually been sleeping with so many other men
eh, if he knows you really have a defacto "open relationship"
Just wow. Please break up with your boyfriend. He deserves someone better than you.
I'm not saying your a terrible person, instead something here is likely wrong and you can't do this to other people. Do you tell the men who your sleeping around with that your taken?
Sometimes it baffles me how people can do this sort of thing. I will never understand
You need to first of all cut off your relationship. You are not mature enough to be in one if this is how your going to treat it. Second you need to find another counselor, or psychologist. This cannot continue.
You know as I've gotten older and I've known more people I honestly think that monogamous relationships are not for everyone. Sometimes it's best to just have plutonic friends of the opposite sex where you can do "date type" stuff with but have no romantic connections but at the same time have someone that you can just "get busy with" when you feel the need. Obviously being in a committed relationship isn't working for you, instead of looking at it as "there's something wrong with me," maybe you should think about creating a lifestyle that works for your individual situation.
I don't understand the problem....the fix is super simple. Stop having a boyfriend, and just go out and have random sex with strangers. Always be on the lookout for fresh meat, since you do not want to risk them getting attached. Have many sources for hookups, all the OLD sites, apps, join a swingers club. Maybe you suffer from "bored mouth syndrome", but seriously oral sex, is sex..
Another observation is the magnitude of the cheating on your boyfriend. I don't understand why you are still with the guy. You don't respect him, especially since he knows and still stays with you. Is your self esteem that low that you can't even leave a man you obviously couldn't give a sh..over? There is nothing wrong with enjoying the company of another person, no matter how brief it is.
I don't think you understand the way the OP sees her problem. She wants to stop, but finds herself unable to do so, even though she is aware of the pain she is causing others and herself.
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