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Old 11-04-2015, 04:08 PM
 
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just in case anyone was wondering i stopped responding to her texts. I was just curious about her motives mainly.
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Old 11-04-2015, 04:10 PM
 
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just in case anyone was wondering i stopped responding to her texts. I was just curious about her motives mainly.
Motives = the Grass is Always Greener.

If this lady finds a rich guy she'll dump Both Of You like hot potatoes.

Sorry but its true. A woman who can do this to her husband is just, FUBB.
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Old 11-04-2015, 04:11 PM
 
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what are the protocols for dating married people who are going through divorce anyway? Some divorces can take over a year
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Old 11-04-2015, 04:15 PM
 
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what are the protocols for dating married people who are going through divorce anyway? Some divorces can take over a year
1- Date, but don't commit.
2- Expect drama.
3- Remove yourself when drama occurs.
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Old 11-04-2015, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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what are the protocols for dating married people who are going through divorce anyway? Some divorces can take over a year
I'd post them but they are 23 pages long.
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Old 11-04-2015, 04:18 PM
 
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1- Date, but don't commit.
2- Expect drama.
3- Remove yourself when drama occurs.
she had her own apartment and wanted me to move in. I said not until the divorce is final. She got very upset about that.

There was a lot of drama. I'm gonna stay clear.
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Old 11-04-2015, 04:20 PM
 
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She is married man. Leave her alone and quit playing with fire.
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Old 11-04-2015, 05:49 PM
 
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Do yourself a favor and block her number after wishing her the very best. If you allow her to, you will be the shoulder to cry on whenever her relationship goes bad. Unless you are in it for just the sex, you probably would want to avoid that emotional roller coaster ride. The majority of the time whenever you date someone in the middle of a divorce, it's a good idea to keep your feelings in check because that person isn't emotionally capable of starting anything new. The longer the marriage, the longer they need to fix themselves as they reinvent a new life after marriage. IME, whenever you date someone who is separated or going through a divorce, it's best to keep things very casual, because what happens to you typically happens all the time, without any notice... Bam you get a text and a goodbye....perfect for short term recreational dating....never in hopes of building anything substantial...they just aren't emotionally capable to, until a year or two after everything is finalized.
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Old 11-04-2015, 07:15 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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what are the protocols for dating married people who are going through divorce anyway? Some divorces can take over a year
Simple: don't.
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Old 11-04-2015, 07:38 PM
 
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Simple: don't.
lots of people going through divorce date
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