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Old 12-03-2015, 07:13 AM
 
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Earlier this year, a guy I was talking and to and really liked upset me, so I deleted his phone number and blocked him on Facebook. Well I would say about a couple of months ago, I went ahead and unblocked him. The main reason I unblocked him was he really did nothing to cause me to block him per se, like being volatile, for example (that would have me block a person permanently) He just did not follow through on something he said he was going to do, which is something I really dislike. Anyways, back to the situation, a few months before I unblocked him however, I see that he has added me on Google+, ,something I barely use, but had me wondering why is he adding me in another social based network for when he has my number and he could call if he really wanted to talk, but really at the point was still upset at him and didn't care. So I blocked him on Google+ too and moved on.

Well as I have said earlier, I had a change of heart and unblocked him a couple of months ago to see if he was alright, and his posts indicated so. Well last month sometime, it said he like a post of mine, or at least I thought it said he did, so I clicked on my notifications, but it was no longer there, so I was like "okay" maybe I'm hallucinating. So I disregarded it. Well this morning I woke up and saw he liked several of my posts (now mind you he is not on my friends list. I just unblocked him). My question to you all is do you think he has been looking for me this whole time until I unblocked him? Do I have a stalker or should I be flattered that I'm still on his mind? Would you send him a message if you were me? Don't laugh at me. I'm for real. I've never seen anything like this before. I just want you all's take on this. Thanks!
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Old 12-03-2015, 07:16 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Earlier this year, a guy I was talking and to and really liked upset me, so I deleted his phone number and blocked him on Facebook. Well I would say about a couple of months ago, I went ahead and unblocked him. The main reason I unblocked him was he really did nothing to cause me to block him per se, like being volatile, for example (that would have me block a person permanently) He just did not follow through on something he said he was going to do, which is something I really dislike. Anyways, back to the situation, a few months before I unblocked him however, I see that he has added me on Google+, ,something I barely use, but had me wondering why is he adding me in another social based network for when he has my number and he could call if he really wanted to talk, but really at the point was still upset at him and didn't care. So I blocked him on Google+ too and moved on.

Well as I have said earlier, I had a change of heart and unblocked him a couple of months ago to see if he was alright, and his posts indicated so. Well last month sometime, it said he like a post of mine, or at least I thought it said he did, so I clicked on my notifications, but it was no longer there, so I was like "okay" maybe I'm hallucinating. So I disregarded it. Well this morning I woke up and saw he liked several of my posts (now mind you he is not on my friends list. I just unblocked him). My question to you all is do you think he has been looking for me this whole time until I unblocked him? Do I have a stalker or should I be flattered that I'm still on his mind? Would you send him a message if you were me? Don't laugh at me. I'm for real. I've never seen anything like this before. I just want you all's take on this. Thanks!
It means nothing.

He's scrolling through, clicking stuff on his phone. It has nothing to do with your worth as a person.

Don't you have a BF anyway? Do you have a REASON to send him a message??? Just let it go.
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Old 12-03-2015, 07:34 AM
 
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It means nothing.

He's scrolling through, clicking stuff on his phone. It has nothing to do with your worth as a person.

Don't you have a BF anyway? Do you have a REASON to send him a message??? Just let it go.
No. Where did you get that from? And you must not know a lot about Facebook to know if someone blocks you from their page, you can't see their page/posts.
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Old 12-03-2015, 08:03 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Earlier this year, a guy I was talking and to and really liked upset me, so I deleted his phone number and blocked him on Facebook. Well I would say about a couple of months ago, I went ahead and unblocked him. The main reason I unblocked him was he really did nothing to cause me to block him per se, like being volatile, for example (that would have me block a person permanently) He just did not follow through on something he said he was going to do, which is something I really dislike. Anyways, back to the situation, a few months before I unblocked him however, I see that he has added me on Google+, ,something I barely use, but had me wondering why is he adding me in another social based network for when he has my number and he could call if he really wanted to talk, but really at the point was still upset at him and didn't care. So I blocked him on Google+ too and moved on.

Well as I have said earlier, I had a change of heart and unblocked him a couple of months ago to see if he was alright, and his posts indicated so. Well last month sometime, it said he like a post of mine, or at least I thought it said he did, so I clicked on my notifications, but it was no longer there, so I was like "okay" maybe I'm hallucinating. So I disregarded it. Well this morning I woke up and saw he liked several of my posts (now mind you he is not on my friends list. I just unblocked him). My question to you all is do you think he has been looking for me this whole time until I unblocked him? Do I have a stalker or should I be flattered that I'm still on his mind? Would you send him a message if you were me? Don't laugh at me. I'm for real. I've never seen anything like this before. I just want you all's take on this. Thanks!
You sound like a drama queen.


No, you don't have a stalker.
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Old 12-03-2015, 08:13 AM
 
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You sound like a drama queen.


No, you don't have a stalker.
Why am I a drama queen? I'm asking a genuine question and I'm being name called..... really? I've never seen this before. So of course I'm trying to understand what it may be. Don't be so mean!!
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Old 12-03-2015, 08:13 AM
 
Location: north bama
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there is an old country song with a verse that goes > .. I was looking back to see if you were looking back to see if I was looking back to see if you were looking back at me ,,.. you both cant get over each other ...
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Old 12-03-2015, 08:24 AM
 
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Why am I a drama queen? I'm asking a genuine question and I'm being name called..... really? I've never seen this before. So of course I'm trying to understand what it may be. Don't be so mean!!

Jeez, how old are you? This sounds like high school antics.
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Old 12-03-2015, 08:27 AM
 
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The main reason I unblocked him was he really did nothing to cause me to block him per se, like being volatile, for example (that would have me block a person permanently)
Oh, irony.
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Old 12-03-2015, 08:28 AM
 
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Oh, irony.
Where is the irony in my post?
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Old 12-03-2015, 08:30 AM
 
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Where is the irony in my post?
You get all bent over something and block him, even though you say it wasn't anything worth blocking him over--and you say being volatile is a reason for blocking someone? Look in the mirror, Bunney. Your behavior is volatile.
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