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UPDATE: (read only if you care) I went to Starbucks today ready to give him my number but he wasn't there. But I will be in again on Saturday to see if he's there. (I know he works Saturday's because he was there last week when I went in.)
For any of you who's wondering if I just walk in to see if he's there, I don't. I actually order a drink every time I go in.
How much more of a hint does he have to give her? How many service personnel tell their customers they're "really pretty"? Nobody does that, unless they have a personal interest in the customer.
This forum is full of guys who can't bring themselves to ask anyone out, because they assume anyone they'd be interested in would already be taken. And yet, when someone like the OP comes along, who clearly is dealing with that type of guy, all those too-shy, unconfident guys disappear into the woodwork, and all we hear is that if he's not hitting her over the head and dragging her back to his cave, he's just not that into her.
UPDATE: (read only if you care) I went to Starbucks today ready to give him my number but he wasn't there. But I will be in again on Saturday to see if he's there. (I know he works Saturday's because he was there last week when I went in.)
For any of you who's wondering if I just walk in to see if he's there, I don't. I actually order a drink every time I go in.
You should also find some other guys instead of fixating on him. Go wear a tight, cleavage showing dress to a bar and sit there for an hour or two. You should get approached a fair amount, and if you go to the right place, you'll meet me real impressive guys if you live in a major metropolitan area.
You should also find some other guys instead of fixating on him. Go wear a tight, cleavage showing dress to a bar and sit there for an hour or two. You should get approached a fair amount, and if you go to the right place, you'll meet me real impressive guys if you live in a major metropolitan area.
Go to a bar in something slutty, drink alone waiting hopefully for somebody to look at her cleavage and what she'll find will be really impressive guys?
OMG...oh dear. LOL...
Yeah, so anyway, hope he's in the next time, OP, I am on the edge waiting here, put us all out of our misery already!
Go to a bar in something slutty, drink alone waiting hopefully for somebody to look at her cleavage and what she'll find will be really impressive guys?
OMG...oh dear. LOL...
Yeah, so anyway, hope he's in the next time, OP, I am on the edge waiting here, put us all out of our misery already!
She can be the judge of character. I'm telling her to do something that will get her more attention. I'm not telling her to do anything beyond that. Attention is good. Having options is good. This creates options.
She can be the judge of character. I'm telling her to do something that will get her more attention. I'm not telling her to do anything beyond that. Attention is good. Having options is good. This creates options.
Any woman can do this but most of us don't want the "attention" of the quality of man who drunkenly stalks desperate all-alone women in bars sitting there poured into slutsuits. Just keeping it real here.
Doesn't look like this woman is desperate, though, she attracts non drunk, polite, apparently non predatory guys, so...yeah.
Your PUA style advice probably isn't something this lady wants. Or needs. JMO.
Any woman can do this but most of us don't want the "attention" of the quality of man who drunkenly stalks desperate women in bars in slutsuits. Just keeping it real here.
Doesn't look like this woman is desperate, though, she attracts non drunk, polite, apparently non predatory guys, so...yeah.
This Starbucks guy is a wimp. He hasn't gotten it done. The most aggressive men are the most successful with women.
This Starbucks guy is a wimp. He hasn't gotten it done. The most aggressive men are the most successful with women.
Thank goodness neither by husband nor I are the type who would go to bar.
And I did not have to wear a tight dress showing off my cleavage to get him to notice me.
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JMO.
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