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I had a guy tell me this. We were interested in dating each other. And that subject came up. I didn't know what to think. I'm not religious and he was so had a gut feeling that weren't going to be compatible, I ended it. That was one of the issues I had with him that it wasn't gonna work out. It sucks because it's rare to get a man interested in going out with me
So what? I mean, a lot of couples feel this way about different things, and end it knowing its not going to work out. Jesus just seems to be your reason.
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Originally Posted by HappyFarm34
I had a guy tell me this. We were interested in dating each other. And that subject came up. I didn't know what to think. I'm not religious and he was so had a gut feeling that weren't going to be compatible, I ended it. That was one of the issues I had with him that it wasn't gonna work out. It sucks because it's rare to get a man interested in going out with me
Hell yeah! I'd definitely haul a*& if I heard that line.
Would I "run for the hills"? Nah. I'm not a fan of blowing simple incompatibility out of proportion. A simple "thanks but no thanks" is usually very sufficient.
I got surprised with this by a guy once. I was really into him. About a month after we met, he said "Jesus does not want me to have sex with you" I told him he should have mentioned that BEFORE we had sex!
The sex was great. I was really disappointed. We kept seeing each other for a while because I was hoping he'd get over it. but no luck. A few years later he moved back to town and I hired him to redo my bathroom. He was hoping we could hook up (He'd left the church that gave him this Jesus message) but I was so over him by then.
I also thought it interesting that Jesus did not seem to care that he borrowed my car when he had temporarily lost his plates due to non-payment of insurance. then took the plates off mine and put them on his (illegal) after I told him not to! That was the end of that.
I have since learned to avoid anyone who mentions Jesus or church attendance in his profile. I really do respect those who walk the walk, but most cannot relate to me and I'm just not ever going to be one of them.
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