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I went on a date with a guy yesterday. He is 32, never married, no kids and though I was great. He was pretty nice, responsible, etc. I would probably go out with him again.
Every man I've dated or that has pursued me has not had kids except one. I would prefer a man with one child(since I have one) but I tend to attract childless men and a lot of them are actually interested in trying to be pretend dads(or the possibility of stepping into the role) which is always strange for me... I find that this is especially common because a lot of the men I've dated come from single mom households so they aren't as judgemental. My options have been exactly the same as they were even before I had my son-still attract educated, tall, attractive, professional men that are similar to
myself only they don't have kids. I have not come across a man that cared that I was a single mother, but I only f*** with black men, so I don't know how other groups are, and I've never believed that being a single mother limited options. I know many single moms that remarried men without kids-my mom was one of them. What I observed is that these women are usually attractive, have their ish together, and weren't overly desperate for any ole' man, they knew their worth and attracted men that did as well. Just so happen that they were more likely to be approached by men without children.
Ciara is engaged to Russell and she is a single mom with a kid. So I think it happens more often than people would admit.
On the other hand I know many combined homes-where both people had kids and it can work but it depends on the dynamic of the families. I can say that in your situation perhaps it's time to just focus on being single for more than 48 hours before rebounding again?
Ciara is a dummy to have gotten involved with Future. A dude with 3 kids from 3 different baby mamas! Some ladies make dumb choices! (britney is another one with the KFederline dude. A dude with 6 kids)
I would never date a woman with kids. i find it too messy.
Ciara is a dummy to have gotten involved with Future. A dude with 3 kids from 3 different baby mamas! Some ladies make dumb choices! (britney is another one with the KFederline dude. A dude with 6 kids)
I would never date a woman with kids. i find it too messy.
You're asking people to be rationale with love, which is something that you can't do. These people tend to have a quality that the other person enjoys. Whether it be their outgoing personality, ability to talk to anyone, or just a look that appears approachable. Granted, having kids does make things more complicated, but when you're Ciara or Britney Spears, you have your own money. Where these two women are at in life, they're likely looking for compatibility and attraction, not the man's earning potential. They already have the income part under control.
I had a girl I was talking to one time tell me she wanted to date a guy with kids. Go figure I thought not having children would be looked on favorably, but in the end since she had kids she wanted someone else with kids.
I had a girl I was talking to one time tell me she wanted to date a guy with kids. Go figure I thought not having children would be looked on favorably, but in the end since she had kids she wanted someone else with kids.
It doesn't really matter. Women are crazy.
Sure blame it on the women. I find men to be equally damaged.
And at this point, I don't think I have the tolerance for any damage.
Ciara is a dummy to have gotten involved with Future. A dude with 3 kids from 3 different baby mamas! Some ladies make dumb choices! (britney is another one with the KFederline dude. A dude with 6 kids)
Kevin didn't have six kids when he met Britney. lol Not saying that she wasn't dumb since he did already have one kid and was living with his pregnant girlfriend at the time that he started seeing Britney.
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