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Old 04-25-2016, 10:47 AM
 
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And you can't adjust the time you go to the gym so there's a better chance of you being there at the same time?
It seems to random within a two hour timespan. Sometimes later sometimes earlier . There seems to be no definitive arrival time
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Old 04-25-2016, 11:42 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Here we go again. It's always not the right time.
Yup!

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Before or after she's engaged to someone else?
I bet he starts a new thread ..." I've seen someone else is 65 too old for dating? "

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It was time 15 pages ago. Seriously. Don't update this page until you've grown a [mullet].
I still can't work out if it's fiction, a thriller or if it's going to turn out to be a " who done it " story ......
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Old 04-25-2016, 12:06 PM
 
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I bet he starts a new thread ..." I've seen someone else is 65 too old for dating? "
I bet he starts one "I've been "friend-zoned by this girl at the gym. How do I make her my girlfriend?"

One of the things that attracted me to LH was there was no game playing, no "rules," no "building up mystery," no leaving me with a "cliffhanger" and wanting more. I knew EXACTLY where I stood with him from Day 1.

I miss dating like it's 1999 (which is when we met).
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Old 04-25-2016, 08:40 PM
 
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I bet he starts one "I've been "friend-zoned by this girl at the gym. How do I make her my girlfriend?"

One of the things that attracted me to LH was there was no game playing, no "rules," no "building up mystery," no leaving me with a "cliffhanger" and wanting more. I knew EXACTLY where I stood with him from Day 1.

I miss dating like it's 1999 (which is when we met).
This is all real every word. I don't see why you all make fun of me. She wasn't there tonight.

The one from before we exchanged numbers talked for a bit but she was accepted into University far away and will be attending so that likely wasn't going work. I talk to her here and there still... nice girl.
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Old 04-26-2016, 05:47 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Op, is going to keep dancing around the perimeter until she shows up with another dude. All of this nonsense and over analyzing is just unnecessary. All he has to do is express his interest and tell her he wants to take her out. Not that hard.

Oh well. His loss.
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Old 04-26-2016, 07:01 AM
 
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Op, is going to keep dancing around the perimeter until she shows up with another dude. All of this nonsense and over analyzing is just unnecessary. All he has to do is express his interest and tell her he wants to take her out. Not that hard.

Oh well. His loss.
I will, but it just seems with only a few brief chats here and there it would be weird as we don't know each other that well. After some more talks then it may better then. The big problem is that its hard to run into her. especially recently or Im leaving when she shows up.
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Old 04-26-2016, 08:02 AM
 
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I will, but it just seems with only a few brief chats here and there it would be weird as we don't know each other that well. After some more talks then it may better then. The big problem is that its hard to run into her. especially recently or Im leaving when she shows up.
That's what asking her out is for - to get to know her better.

Enjoy your friendship with her.
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Old 04-26-2016, 08:40 AM
 
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I will, but it just seems with only a few brief chats here and there it would be weird as we don't know each other that well. After some more talks then it may better then. The big problem is that its hard to run into her. especially recently or Im leaving when she shows up.
Then stop acting like little Billy peeking behind the tree, and ASK HER OUT.

That's the point. If she rejects you, oh well. At least you tried. Quit making excuses and being scared. With all the games you're playing she probably thinks you're not interested.
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Old 04-26-2016, 11:07 AM
 
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See that's the thing about approaching. The longer we wait, the more excuses we have for not approaching or approaching under pretense of friendly chit chat, rather than letting our real intentions be known. If you are a guy, be the guy that approaches right away, without shame or fear, and lets his intentions be known and clear. This is how you can be an attractive man, and its how you have your pick.
We have had a few small talks here and there. I have not seen her for a while . She told me twice she wants to talk and I have but I did not sense it's time to take it outside the gym yet. I mean this would not there long if we ran into each other more. Ally his pressure from everyone is too soon. That doesn't mean I won't get to it.
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Old 04-26-2016, 11:19 AM
 
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Ally his pressure from everyone is too soon. to it.
If you feel being warned that if you wait too long, you are going to miss out on your opportunity is too much pressure, you probably shouldn't be dating.
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