Face to face with your boyfriend's other lover: How does it feel?

[49erfan916]

I wouldn't get my hands dirty over a cheating girlfriend. They can have each other, lol. Ironically, this girl wants me to go out to dinner with her while her relationship is "on the rocks" I'm very wary of the situation and playing it very cautiously.

[usayit]

Originally Posted by 49erfan916

I wouldn't get my hands dirty over a cheating girlfriend. They can have each other, lol. Ironically, this girl wants me to go out to dinner with her while her relationship is "on the rocks" I'm very wary of the situation and playing it very cautiously.

Considering your feelings about cheaters, I am surprised you are even "playing it very cautiously". She must be hot enough for the exception...

[Leisesturm]

Originally Posted by 49erfan916

I wouldn't get my hands dirty over a cheating girlfriend. They can have each other, lol. Ironically, this girl wants me to go out to dinner with her while her relationship is "on the rocks" I'm very wary of the situation and playing it very cautiously.

Huh? Waffle much? Wonder how many other "tough talkers" here who urge those who have been cheated on not to even look back as they move on actually cave when its themselves in the hole. I've been telling the self righteous to "never say never" for years. This is exactly why.

[Ralph_Kirk]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

I honestly wish I had been in a situation where I met my cheating ex partner's lover. I'd thank him and buy him a few beers. Im not even joking.

I see what you did there (bolded).


Uh, yeah. "Boyfriend's other lover" is not a phrase that would ever apply to me, if I were a woman.


It would always be "Ex-boyfriend's other lover." And I've been there, done that, as a man whose girlfriend started singing, "Torn Between Two Lovers."

[funymann]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

I honestly wish I had been in a situation where I met my cheating ex partner's lover. I'd thank him and buy him a few beers. Im not even joking.

I would do one better and give him my car keys when I leave.

If I could be so lucky. Nobody wants her.

[D217]

Oh, I'm definitely throwin' down.

[NVplumber]

Originally Posted by D217

Oh, I'm definitely throwin' down.

Ain't worth it. I almost did that , and I'm way glad I came to my senses. It was gratifying to see them have something come between them and their underwear though. The "explanation" of " this isn't what you think" was pretty amusing too.

[cpg35223]

My wife has just broken it off with her fiancé when we met. Ten months later, we were married. Ten years later, still single, he comes to town and wants to have lunch with her. "Want to come along and meet Philip?" she asked. So I did. He just eyeballed me the entire time.