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My daughter's father and I have been broken up for a year. Recently hes been really nice to me. We'll it ended up being casual sex. He says he doesn't want to hurt me and isn't looking for anyone else or trying to meet new people. I was ok with that but everytime he picks up or drops my daughter off he wants to be kissing me. If all he wants is casual sex then why does he hug me and hold my hand and kiss me. And he also likes to eat at my place.
IMHO, he is just using you for casual sex and free food.
He hugs you and holds your hand because it makes it easier for him to trick you into thinking that he really cares about you but it is really just to get the easy, no strings attached sex & free food.
Maybe being single didn't end up being what he thought it would be. (Easy sex and freedom.)
It really sounds like he is using you until he finds something else. This has to be confusing for your daughter too. If you think you might want to get back together you need to stop this and have a serious talk about expectations and goals.
His mother was always getting into our relationship.
Well, if his relationship with his mother has changed---for example, he now stands up to her----maybe he has changed, too.
If you were my friend or daughter I would advise you to take it slowly. Pretend that he is a new guy that you are just starting to date. You wouldn't have sex with a random stranger after a first date, would you? I certainly hope not. Then do NOT have sex with him until you build a new, honest relationship again.
If he is willing to wait weeks or months for the sex and free food maybe he has changed. Go on actual dates, like you would with a new boyfriend. Yes, hire a babysitter and go on dates where you actually talk and get to know each other again. If you can't afford a babysitter (or can't find a friend to babysit for free) or he claims that he can't afford to "take you on a real date" then you are just kidding yourself about his real intentions and he is just using you.
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