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Old 07-08-2016, 11:49 AM
 
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People (even people I do feel smarter than) brush me off as stupid.
Those people are the ones with the problem!
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Old 07-08-2016, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Austin, Texas
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I do love intellectual conversations, but the problem is most women are not smart enough for that.

Suppose a man has two options, a woman who believes she is very smart while she isn't, and a woman who admits she is not smart enough to challenge her husband.

To make things worse, when a woman has the false perception that she is smart, she is more likely to be arrogant. Do you prefer an arrogant stupid woman or a humble stupid woman?

More likely than not, the man will choose the latter.
The best choice in certain cases would be for a man not to choose a woman who knows the man is not as smart as he thinks he is.
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Old 10-29-2016, 12:10 PM
 
Location: Italy
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I love bimbos. If there were any where I live I would have certainly be happier over the last years.

Anyway I think a smart man understands that a relationship isn't all about sex or all about character. A great partner has to be sexually attractive and have a matching character to mine. To me if a girl says something smart or dumb it doesn't really matter, as I believe what matters is the intention with which actions are made. If a girl acts and speaks with good intentions, we both want the best for each other, and she desn't feel the need to act fake I believe it's a match made in heaven.
So yes, I would definitely date a bimbo. Marriage is a little off putting and complicated since it's so hard on men legally but people still marry nowadays so you can probably still find your match.

FYI I am 29 years old from Italy, healthy and very successful in my own career. If any woman could ever the chance to make me lose my reason capability to the point where I would marry her it would probably be one I'm incredibly sexually attracted to. It's not going to happen but you know, just saying. You have great chances as long as you have a positive, pleasing personality. Good luck!
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Old 10-30-2016, 05:03 PM
 
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I've been thinking about my social life lately. I'm not sure how to put this without sounding like I'm putting myself down but here goes...
I'm not the sharpest knife in the drawer but I'm not the dullest either. I try to stay abreast of current events but I also find the news depressing so I limit how much I watch. Its almost like if I slip up and say something smart they gasp under their breath a little.
One of my favorite tv shows is still The Golden Girls. Whenever I tell guys this like clockwork the first thing they do is laugh and say "that's who you remind me of...Rose!" Then I'll get upset and they'll say "[b]no your nativity is cute[\b]." I'm 32!
Another thing is that these guys want to sleep with me but aren't usually trying to pursue anything serious as we get older. Reading this back is really embarrassing so please don't go to hard on me.
Do you mean naïveté?

Sorry, I hadn't read all the posts. And now I can't! LOL
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