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Old 07-28-2016, 10:46 AM
 
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49ersfan has also admitted to not being a big fan of sex.

So consider the sources of wisdom here.
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Old 07-28-2016, 10:47 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Yeah I tried to explain that as well.
I guess if your way of initiating too subtle, it goes completely unnoticed. Has anyone else hinted at this, or just him?
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Old 07-28-2016, 10:48 AM
 
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I guess if your way of initiating too subtle, it goes completely unnoticed. Has anyone else hinted at this, or just him?
I think she has said in previous posts that she is not really interested in sex in the first place so the not initiating would probably go with the territory.
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Old 07-28-2016, 10:51 AM
 
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Speechlessness.


I thought it was natural for both to initiate. It's a natural drive humans have, not just men.




......isn't it?
Apparently I don't have it anymore. I was like that in my younger days, but I outgrew it and would rather devote the little time and energy I have to more useful conquests.
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Old 07-28-2016, 10:53 AM
 
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I think this was his way of telling you that you are just not interested enough in sex to make a good partner. You have admitted as much yourself.
Could very well be. He wanted it 3-4 times a day. I was content with once a day or every other day. I have kids, chores and way more responsibility that require my time.
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Old 07-28-2016, 10:57 AM
 
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I guess if your way of initiating too subtle, it goes completely unnoticed. Has anyone else hinted at this, or just him?
Just him.
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Old 07-28-2016, 10:58 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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You have stated in an earlier thread that you are not very interested in sex (anymore?). I guess he realized that and wants a woman who desires him (more).
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:00 AM
 
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I think she has said in previous posts that she is not really interested in sex in the first place so the not initiating would probably go with the territory.
I use to be but thankfully not so much these days. Not that I think my want is abnormal. I don't want it 3-4 times a day, but once a day or every other day is fine. I always thought this was normal and healthy, but I could be mistaken.
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:01 AM
 
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Could very well be. He wanted it 3-4 times a day. I was content with once a day or every other day. I have kids, chores and way more responsibility that require my time.
It just sounds like you two had mismatched sex drives. Would you have initiated if you went more than a week without sex?
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Old 07-28-2016, 11:02 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I'm sure this makes me sound like a prude, but to me, 3-4 times a day is vacation/lazy weekend sex. That expectation every day? I've got other stuff to do, man.
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