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Originally Posted by Just A Guy
One or two or even three times maybe. Tens years worth...nope.
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Which part logically indicates an absent father though, single for 10 years? What about 5 years? Does it matter if maybe the one picked didn't turn out to be a
good long term match, or is it only if the one "picked" didn't
want a serious relationship?
Will it be due to an absentee father that the person had a decent committed relationship for a couple of years then lost that loving feeling...or is it only when one is cheated on that they're looking to continue the absenteeism of their father?
This is too much of a blanket statement, and sometimes it's not true. Maybe sometimes it is true, but that could also be coincidence.
The people posting here who are asking for suggestions are for the most part single. Are
all single people then "damaged with broken pickers, due to absentee fathers", or what exactly are your
parameters when coming to this conclusion on a
case by case basis? Which long time single people in your equation
have good pickers?
Your logic seems to indicate that if one simply
quits looking for a relationship, that means they are mentally healthy because they had a good relationship with a present father, and they no longer need a man for anything, because daddy didn't go away when they were little.
Edit to add: OP, it took you getting to know the pattern of this relationship to decide it wasn't what you wanted. You made the right decision. One day you may meet someone you want to have a LTR with and things will fall into place.
You are not broken, and nothing is wrong with you.
Good luck!