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I know it's pretty straightforward, but I guess I just think all men are liars and he's just buttering me up. But if he was buttering me up, perhaps it would be been over the top.
That's the problem when someone lies to you, you think everyone else lies too
Just because he's honest or articulate, that doesn't mean he's not buttering you up. It also doesn't mean he's not saying the same thing to 5 other women on different nights of the week.
Also, just because he wants to sleep with you, that doesn't mean he wants anything more. In fact, it sounds like that's all he's interested in. If a man is interested in more than sex, he doesn't cut right to the chase with a discussion of sex. That whole "open to more if you're emotionally available" thing is a crock, and gives him an out to ghost after he taps.
Sleep with this guy if you want to, but don't expect to hear from again afterwards.
Also, take into consideration the OP is married, but wants to have sex outside of her marriage.
Er, EXCUSEZ-MOI???
Are you serious?
OP, can you clarify? And while we're on the subject of lying, you're not lying to your husband in this case, I'm assuming, since you're against lying and accuse men of being liars. You and your husband have an agreement?
In either case, this would mean you couldn't possibly expect more of the person than to want sex alone from you, nor could you expect him to think you want more. He must be very confused as to why you're insisting on "more" in the way of "why" and probably feels you're just playing some game with yourself where you pretend it's all more romantic than just sex and cheating. He probably thinks he's playing along.
But I can't assume that until you clarify, so I hope you return to do so.
OP, can you clarify? And while we're on the subject of lying, you're not lying to your husband in this case, I'm assuming, since you're against lying and accuse men of being liars. You and your husband have an agreement?
In either case, this would mean you couldn't possibly expect more of the person than to want sex alone from you, nor could you expect him to think you want more. He must be very confused as to why you're insisting on "more" in the way of "why" and probably feels you're just playing some game with yourself where you pretend it's all more romantic than just sex and cheating. He probably thinks he's playing along.
But I can't assume that until you clarify, so I hope you return to do so.
Apparently, legally separated since Tuesday, but still living together.
Damn....I thought the name was familiar....not sure why it didn't click.
OP, if your situation is still the same as described in those previous threads....trying to figure out another man's intentions is THE LAST thing you should be concerned about.....realistically you're not in a good place at all to be trying to introduce someone else into your life. At all.
Damn....I thought the name was familiar....not sure why it didn't click.
OP, if your situation is still the same as described in those previous threads....trying to figure out another man's intentions is THE LAST thing you should be concerned about.....realistically you're not in a good place at all to be trying to introduce someone else into your life. At all.
After I read your 2 previous threads I am almost sure that your new man does not know that you are still married, right? How long do you know him?
A guy that interested in sleeping with me told me this when I asked him why he was attracted to me
" I think you have very attractive features, I think you carry yourself well with a lot of confidence, and the two combined I find very sexy".
What does this mean? To me, it doesn't sound like the normal, sleazy lines I've heard before. Thoughts?
I read the thread so far and I'm still baffled.
What would he be lying about? He basically said he thinks you're hot and he wants to bang you. I mean, he didn't say anything bad or disrespectful but he didn't say anything amazing either.
What would he be lying about? He basically said he thinks you're hot and he wants to bang you. I mean, he didn't say anything bad or disrespectful but he didn't say anything amazing either.
This has been my question to, but people keep saying he's lying...?
Where's the lie?
1. He straight-up told her he wanted to sleep with her.
2. She asked what it was about her he found attractive (to paraphrase).
3. He came up with a couple of things, probably having to guess since he most likely wasn't really sure; he just knew he wanted to sleep with her, and he knew she wanted him to talk more.
4. She came on here to ask whether he's just a liar as most men are.
I...dunno.
I think OP probably has her answer so I don't want to beat a dead horse; just listing things as I see them.
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