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My ex recently contacted me after about two weeks of NC but work together. Talked about work nothing major. I got fired and I went to the temp agency and I texted her about it because I called her and let her know from me before she heard it from anyone else that I got fired and why. She said sorry and I said well I'll let you know about temp agency should I text you or what? She said "if you want to". So I did and we had a conversation about where I'm getting job at and then she said I could sue my work that fired me.
Well I left the conversation at that and all of a sudden about 5-6 hours later I get a call from her. She's venting about her dad and how he got engaged and she's pissed and he knew If he did that he was going to lose his daughters "my gf and her sister". She asked my opinions and what I thought. This lead on to other conversations about how she's closing all weekend. And she brought up a Halloween party. She doesn't want to go, I said well I'll go with you if you decide to go so let me know. She said okay. Then just talked and I said "no pressure" but if you want to get some food before work one day let me know. She said okay about that too. I said do you like haunted houses? She said yes. I said we can go to this one I know I can get in for free and it's supposed to be really good. I said we should go and she said "maybe". She's closing all weekend so probably not.
I left the conversation by saying goodnight and to lmk. She said night and bye. I woke up at 10 and texted her and said "want to go to Pizza Hut buffet" that's her favorite but she didn't wake up for like another hour and half. I said ta probably to late now she said yeah. I said I just thought I'd ask you to go. She said thank you. I said lmk if you want to get some food tomorrow before work or something lmk. She said ok. I've left it at that.
Tomorrow is the Halloween party as well. What do you guys think I should do? She contacted me out of no where and didn't seem like she wanted to get off the phone.
No, do not contact her. She will contact you if she's interested.
You've interpreted this recent contact one way: maybe she's interested in getting back together because she contacted you "out of no where."
My interpretation is different. She didn't contact you out of no where. You contacted her to share some "bad" news. She was ambivalent about learning more. You contacted her again. She then received some "bad" news. Given that you were recently sharing bad news and she needed to vent, she contacted you. That's all it was--her needing to vent.
Yeah so she started contacting me about a guy at work who has cancer and I ****ed up and asked about the Halloween party and she said she's not going. So I asked if she wanted to go out for some drinks. All I got was "James". So I'm backing off completely
Yeah it's just you have no idea how this girl was she used to be up my ass now it's flipped because when I lied she said she doesn't think she can trust me again
Going NC means you are absolutely done with that person- not that you are trying to teach them a lesson unless/until they come crawling back to you.
If you are still interested in this girl, let her do the work.
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