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Old 10-17-2016, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Lol c'mon, that perfect world does exist for you
No it doesn't. I have been rejected more times than I have succeeded.

 
Old 10-17-2016, 02:00 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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If a woman expected me to "chase" her then I'd immediately lose interest. I will ask you out and plan a date but I will not chase you around like a lost dog. No woman is worth that.
I speak for myself when I say I don't respect men who follow me around like lost dogs.. More often than not I just want them to get lost and stay lost. -

No means no. And in some cases, no means HELL no! Lol
 
Old 10-17-2016, 02:09 PM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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None of the above
I agree. This is a false choice. Every relationship or even flirtation I've engaged in has been a give and take affair.
 
Old 10-17-2016, 02:16 PM
 
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Objectively speaking, It completely depends on what you are trying to achieve to begin with.
 
Old 10-17-2016, 02:17 PM
 
Location: SW MO
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* Romance is a dance, and it takes 2 to tango. The man simply leads as he heeds a woman's rhythm. *
Bingo! We have a winner!
 
Old 10-17-2016, 03:06 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I speak for myself when I say I don't respect men who follow me around like lost dogs.. More often than not I just want them to get lost and stay lost. -

No means no. And in some cases, no means HELL no! Lol
I respect that. No does mean no.
 
Old 10-17-2016, 03:15 PM
 
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I've never chased a man in my life. If a woman chases a man, he loses interest immediately.
Somebody needs to define "chase". I have a feeling it means way different things to different people.

If you mean shows interest back and reciprocates, then you are totally wrong.

If you mean stalk a guy who is not attracted to you, then you are right.

Last edited by Just A Guy; 10-17-2016 at 03:28 PM..
 
Old 10-17-2016, 03:25 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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I agree. This is a false choice. Every relationship or even flirtation I've engaged in has been a give and take affair.



This.
 
Old 10-17-2016, 03:45 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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Somebody needs to define "chase". I have a feeling it means way different things to different people.

If you mean shows interest back and reciprocates, then you are totally wrong.

If you mean stalk a guy who is not attracted to you, then you are right.
Agree. Of course showing interest back is great. I said I had never chased a man in my life, but it isn't entirely true. After my divorce at 29, I was back in college and feeling the need to have someone make me feel desirable again. I may have sort of stalked and wound up in the same classes as a man I found attractive, but he was married. This is why I have the opinion that I have now. Not a good idea. Chalk it up to temporary insanity.
 
Old 10-17-2016, 04:22 PM
 
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No it doesn't. I have been rejected more times than I have succeeded.
What I mean is that we live in a world where men approach and women expect to be approached, you mentioned about that living in a perfect world and well there you go
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