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The woman I spoke of in another thread, just reached out to me and wrote this:
Asalamu aleikum. I am engaged. Please don't reach out again. May God be with you.
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Man guys and girl, I'm really hurting, wish I had someone I could cry to and hug. Feeling worthless right now.
The woman I spoke of in another thread, just reached out to me and wrote this:
Asalamu aleikum. I am engaged. Please don't reach out again. May God be with you.
-Sent free from TextNow.com
Man guys and girl, I'm really hurting, wish I had someone I could cry to and hug. Feeling worthless right now.
I haven't had a chance yet to read the other thread you had mentioned, but I am truly very sorry to hear about the very painful exp. you are currently going through Please rest assured, you are definitely and absolutely not and never worthless, and you are 100% deserving of finding real and genuine love, that will last. If a lady you were seeing was so harsh and cold-hearted to treat you like that, she never even deserved you to begin with, in mho.
I haven't had a chance yet to read the other thread you had mentioned, but I am truly very sorry to hear about the very painful exp. you are currently going through Please rest assured, you are definitely and absolutely not and never worthless, and you are 100% deserving of finding real and genuine love, that will last. If a lady you were seeing was so harsh and cold-hearted to treat you like that, she never even deserved you to begin with, in mho.
Thanks but I'm broken man, I don't know what to do. my key board is drenched.
Thanks but I'm broken man, I don't know what to do. my key board is drenched.
I am admittedly not very experienced with relationships myself, only been in a few in life so far tbh, but I have heard it said that one of the best ways of getting over a lost love is to try to find a potential new love? (Not meant as a rebound relationship or FWB situation, but rather as a real, genuine full and loving, caring relationship?)
The new guy she was talking to/ seeing.... man why does she feel to stay a week away and hurt me further more.
Oh. I thought the main issue was that she got back with her ex, or was seeing him, anyway.
So she's with somebody new, and she's already engaged? She's crazy, OP. Nobody just starts seeing a guy, and gets engaged. It's not normal. So you dodged a bullet. You didn't know it at the time you got involved with her, so you thought you were the only one she'd done that with, but you can see now that it's her m.o. Now some other guy will be paying her expenses, blah blah. Boy, I feel sorry for that child, bouncing around from one "dad" to another.
She isn't who you thought she was, OP. It was just a dream, I'm sorry. She doesn't deserve a good guy like you. Somewhere out there is a good woman who will do right by you.
Tomorrow, go to the gym and pound a punching bag until you drop. Best of luck, OP.
I am admittedly not very experienced with relationships myself, only been in a few in life so far tbh, but I have heard it said that one of the best ways of getting over a lost love is to try to find a potential new love? (Not meant as a rebound relationship or FWB situation, but rather as a real, genuine full and loving, caring relationship?)
Right, but not as a substitute for what he just lost. First the OP needs to grieve his loss, get past that, heal from all the stuff she dragged him through, get back to a place of stability, and then maybe he'll be ready to attract some positive energy. If he gets involved with anyone in the next few weeks or months, it would be from a place of neediness, and that would only invite more trouble.
Oh. I thought the main issue was that she got back with her ex, or was seeing him, anyway.
So she's with somebody new, and she's already engaged? She's crazy, OP. Nobody just starts seeing a guy, and gets engaged. It's not normal. So you dodged a bullet. You didn't know it at the time you got involved with her, so you thought you were the only one she'd done that with, but you can see now that it's her m.o. Now some other guy will be paying her expenses, blah blah. Boy, I feel sorry for that child, bouncing around from one "dad" to another.
She isn't who you thought she was, OP. It was just a dream, I'm sorry. She doesn't deserve a good guy like you. Somewhere out there is a good woman who will do right by you.
Tomorrow, go to the gym and pound a punching bag until you drop. Best of luck, OP.
Yeah I'll see what I can do, my mind is fried right now.
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
Right, but not as a substitute for what he just lost. First the OP needs to grieve his loss, get past that, heal from all the stuff she dragged him through, get back to a place of stability, and then maybe he'll be ready to attract some positive energy. If he gets involved with anyone in the next few weeks or months, it would be from a place of neediness, and that would only invite more trouble.
My Friend we have all been there. The key is to become independent. You see when two independent people come together it is called an interdependent relationship. Each one can comfortably and confidently be by themselves. I swear to you, I am not referring to bitterness, selfishness, or coldness. This is just fact, and the more you rely on yourself to be happy, the more of this life you will truthfully enjoy. We only get one shot my friend...LIVE!
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Please rest assured, you are definitely and absolutely not and never worthless, and you are 100% deserving of finding real and genuine love, that will last. If a lady you were seeing was so harsh and cold-hearted to treat you like that, she never even deserved you to begin with, in mho.
(Not meant as a rebound relationship or FWB situation, but rather as a real, genuine full and loving, caring relationship?)
Become Independant!
