Confused and not Sure if I Shoul Keep Pursuing

[MigratingCoconut]

Originally Posted by Bacui

Thanks, you're right and I have already made the decision to not waste my time with her anymore. I'll look for someone who won't just use me for attention.

How about someone who won't use you like that at all?

[Bacui]

Well, yeah that's what I meant. Just expressed it wrong. It's just that it's been a frustrating experience so I've been kinda out of whack lately.

[tassity22]

Originally Posted by Just A Guy

The closest you will have in terms of having a relationship with her is to be her emotional tampon.

Blunt but very true.

[Bacui]

Originally Posted by tassity22

Blunt but very true.

I prefer bluntness... I don't want people to act as if they have to walk around eggshells when advising me.

[mainebrokerman]

Originally Posted by Bacui

I prefer bluntness... I don't want people to act as if they have to walk around eggshells when advising me.

then realize this is part of maturity and learning,,,just because you like/want a woman in a certain way..means she will reciprocate...
be a realist and gentleman,,,let her go and wish her well,,
men who are control freaks cannot accept this and will strike out against them...these are immature weak men


you cant always get what you want......

[augiedogie]

You've wasted too much time on this woman already. Move on.

[Bacui]

Originally Posted by augiedogie

You've wasted too much time on this woman already. Move on.

I do agree and I am to blame for keeping home of it transgressing into something more. But I now know that I was hoping on to false hopes and I'm aware of this now.