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Old 12-25-2016, 06:12 PM
 
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I have known a guy for a few years who shows me interest and then withdraws. He leads me on and then ignores my messages. The final straw was he acted interested again, ignored my message yet has been on the dating sites. Should I delete him off Facebook? I don't want to keep checking his profile and letting him see what I am up to. But by leaving him on there it shows I am not bothered. Then deleting him would show him I am annoyed. I have deleted him from my phone so he can't see when I have last been on What's app. I want to move on and feel he has disrespected me. What is best to do?
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Old 12-25-2016, 06:14 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Delete him..who cares what he thinks. Cut him off and don't look back.
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Old 12-25-2016, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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^^^ Yup!!
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Old 12-25-2016, 06:35 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Delete him..who cares what he thinks. Cut him off and don't look back.
Yes EXACTLY

Grace ..... And I'd text him and tell him what a complete idiot he is as well ( from what you said on your other thread .... Which I still can't believe he acted like that my love )
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Old 12-25-2016, 06:40 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I have known a guy for a few years who shows me interest and then withdraws. He leads me on and then ignores my messages. The final straw was he acted interested again, ignored my message yet has been on the dating sites. Should I delete him off Facebook? I don't want to keep checking his profile and letting him see what I am up to. But by leaving him on there it shows I am not bothered. Then deleting him would show him I am annoyed. I have deleted him from my phone so he can't see when I have last been on What's app. I want to move on and feel he has disrespected me. What is best to do?
FB has an ignore type feature, I forget what it's called, but you won't see his posts but you're not deleting him. I've got a couple of FB "friends" that I use that feature on. It helps preserve peoples feelings of being dumped.
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Old 12-25-2016, 06:53 PM
 
Location: Saint John, IN
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DELETE him, lose his number and move on! Not worth your time!
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Old 12-25-2016, 09:04 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Delete him.......gawd scarecrow.
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Old 12-25-2016, 09:11 PM
 
Location: USA
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Delete. Nobody needs his silly games. Move on, don't look back
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Old 12-25-2016, 09:15 PM
 
Location: Southwest Pa
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You don't have to delete him but you can pretty much shut him out of your F-Book while still on the surface staying friends. Hard to tell you exactly what to do since I've no clue how many friends you have but I'd start with sorting out the "close friends" from plain old people you just happen to be "friends" with. You can set things so he'll never see an update other than your profile picture and the banner picture. You'll still be friends, you'll still be able to see his stuff, he'll just think you quit posting.
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Old 12-25-2016, 09:28 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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You don't have to delete him but you can pretty much shut him out of your F-Book while still on the surface staying friends. Hard to tell you exactly what to do since I've no clue how many friends you have but I'd start with sorting out the "close friends" from plain old people you just happen to be "friends" with. You can set things so he'll never see an update other than your profile picture and the banner picture. You'll still be friends, you'll still be able to see his stuff, he'll just think you quit posting.
Don't know why but the way you worded that made me chuckle a bit lol.
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