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Old 05-14-2017, 08:38 AM
 
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Had my first interaction with a "COUGAR". She was in her 50s. 15 year age gap. I exchanged numbers to be polite. I didn't think much of it but she'd send funny text messages, and she later invited me out for a drink. I figured it wouldn't hurt to befriend her and maybe I'd learn some things from her as she's been an independent business. She had lots of experience in the service industry opening and selling interest in nightclubs, dive bars, etc.

We have some drinks and things get a bit flirty. She begins to touch me and fondle a bit. Things escalate and she's making out with me. I didn't enjoy her kisses, but its tough to reject someone aggressively going down on you in a bar.

I'm not going to get into the details, but she's begging me to have sex with her with no condom. Saying things like "I can't get pregnant"; "We're going to be exclusive"... She got a bit violent and was forcing herself on me. I rejected her and she storms out of the private area we were in. She's screaming at me "You spent $100 on drinks, SO WHAT?", etc. It was a bunch of non-sense rants about stuff that I never said or had an issue with. She was making claims about how I felt about her body and all types of ridiculous stuff. The entire ordeal was beyond ODD.

Insane night. Guys be careful out there!
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Old 05-14-2017, 08:47 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Had my first interaction with a "COUGAR". She was in her 50s. 15 year age gap. I exchanged numbers to be polite. I didn't think much of it but she'd send funny text messages, and she later invited me out for a drink. I figured it wouldn't hurt to befriend her and maybe I'd learn some things from her as she's been an independent business. She had lots of experience in the service industry opening and selling interest in nightclubs, dive bars, etc.

We have some drinks and things get a bit flirty. She begins to touch me and fondle a bit. Things escalate and she's making out with me. I didn't enjoy her kisses, but its tough to reject someone aggressively going down on you in a bar.

I'm not going to get into the details, but she's begging me to have sex with her with no condom. Saying things like "I can't get pregnant"; "We're going to be exclusive"... She got a bit violent and was forcing herself on me. I rejected her and she storms out of the private area we were in. She's screaming at me "You spent $100 on drinks, SO WHAT?", etc. It was a bunch of non-sense rants about stuff that I never said or had an issue with. She was making claims about how I felt about her body and all types of ridiculous stuff. The entire ordeal was beyond ODD.

Insane night. Guys be careful out there!
Um ...

So you're not moving out of town with your live in GF anymore, I guess.

what happens to my spoiled GF when I leave...
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Old 05-14-2017, 08:51 AM
 
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Had my first interaction with a "COUGAR". She was in her 50s. 15 year age gap. I exchanged numbers to be polite. I didn't think much of it but she'd send funny text messages, and she later invited me out for a drink. I figured it wouldn't hurt to befriend her and maybe I'd learn some things from her as she's been an independent business. She had lots of experience in the service industry opening and selling interest in nightclubs, dive bars, etc.

We have some drinks and things get a bit flirty. She begins to touch me and fondle a bit. Things escalate and she's making out with me. I didn't enjoy her kisses, but its tough to reject someone aggressively going down on you in a bar.

I'm not going to get into the details, but she's begging me to have sex with her with no condom. Saying things like "I can't get pregnant"; "We're going to be exclusive"... She got a bit violent and was forcing herself on me. I rejected her and she storms out of the private area we were in. She's screaming at me "You spent $100 on drinks, SO WHAT?", etc. It was a bunch of non-sense rants about stuff that I never said or had an issue with. She was making claims about how I felt about her body and all types of ridiculous stuff. The entire ordeal was beyond ODD.

Insane night. Guys be careful out there!

Assuming this story is true, craziness doesn't have an age requirement...with either sex.
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Old 05-14-2017, 08:52 AM
 
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I don't think one that is 35 with a 50 classifies as "cougar" anymore.

When I think of cougar, it is the 35 yo with a 18-20 year old kid, which btw at that time in my life I was completely cool with.
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Old 05-14-2017, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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Um ...

So you're not moving out of town with your live in GF anymore, I guess.

what happens to my spoiled GF when I leave...
LOL.
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Old 05-14-2017, 11:06 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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There are nut jobs at all ages. And if you're 35, you're not cougar food. The stereotypical "cougar" goes for teen or maybe 20-something guys. You're too old. Mostly, IMO, it's a male fantasy that Hollywood got hold of and tried to popularize on TV. The only people who fell for the image, though, were the younger guys. Most women aren't interested in boys; they're more into men around their age.

You sure like to fantasize about women and big age differences, don't you?

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Old 05-14-2017, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Had my first interaction with a "COUGAR". She was in her 50s. 15 year age gap. I exchanged numbers to be polite. I didn't think much of it but she'd send funny text messages, and she later invited me out for a drink. I figured it wouldn't hurt to befriend her and maybe I'd learn some things from her as she's been an independent business. She had lots of experience in the service industry opening and selling interest in nightclubs, dive bars, etc.

We have some drinks and things get a bit flirty. She begins to touch me and fondle a bit. Things escalate and she's making out with me. I didn't enjoy her kisses, but its tough to reject someone aggressively going down on you in a bar.

I'm not going to get into the details, but she's begging me to have sex with her with no condom. Saying things like "I can't get pregnant"; "We're going to be exclusive"... She got a bit violent and was forcing herself on me. I rejected her and she storms out of the private area we were in. She's screaming at me "You spent $100 on drinks, SO WHAT?", etc. It was a bunch of non-sense rants about stuff that I never said or had an issue with. She was making claims about how I felt about her body and all types of ridiculous stuff. The entire ordeal was beyond ODD.

Insane night. Guys be careful out there!

"JUST BEGGING" to go raw dog with a complete and utter stranger, huh?

Haha. That's some good stuff.
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Old 05-14-2017, 11:49 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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"JUST BEGGING" to go raw dog with a complete and utter stranger, huh?

Haha. That's some good stuff.
Yes, in another life I suppose he may have had a paying gig with Penthouse Forum.
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Old 05-14-2017, 12:07 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Yes, in another life I suppose he may have had a paying gig with Penthouse Forum.
Except I don't think even Penthouse Forum takes stories involving women over 50, lol!

I wonder what the OP has against women his own age? The 30's are a great age for finding "active" women... OP's missing out.
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Old 05-14-2017, 01:22 PM
 
Location: Penfield, NY
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I don't get it. Guy asks a question in the title but posts an outlandish dating encounter in the text.

I'm also pretty sure there's a whole other side to this story than what Exhibit_B tells. What gives?
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