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Old 06-20-2017, 01:06 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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Originally Posted by upsadaisy View Post
just because I dont have a job that doesn't mean I stop being interested in love and the possibility.

Unless you're willing to settle for some complete slug working the system with no goals... don't you want to improve yourself so you'll attract a better "catch"?
It seems you don't understand the importance of bringing something to the table.
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:09 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Unless you're willing to settle for some complete slug working the system with no goals... don't you want to improve yourself so you'll attract a better "catch"?
It seems you don't understand the importance of bringing something to the table.
I think I have good morals and qualities. Obviously I'm not rich and not really in the best place money wise but I still think Im worthy of love I try to be kind and I think Im fun to be around.
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:13 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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I think I have good morals and qualities. Obviously I'm not rich and not really in the best place money wise but I still think Im worthy of love I try to be kind and I think Im fun to be around.
Most of us have good morals, good qualities, are fun to be around, tell good jokes, like to help others, like to cook....
I don't understand your post.
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:14 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Most of us have good morals, good qualities, are fun to be around, tell good jokes, like to help others, like to cook....
I don't understand your post.
Then why did you answer? Honestly not trying to come off as mean. I don't respond to posts unless I understand what's going on lol
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:15 PM
 
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Then why did you answer? Honestly not trying to come off as mean. I don't respond to posts unless I understand what's going on lol
Because if that's all you have to offer...when everyone else has that PLUS a job...you're the last one in line.
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:17 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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Because if that's all you have to offer...when everyone else has that PLUS a job...you're the last one in line.
This
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:21 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Because if that's all you have to offer...when everyone else has that PLUS a job...you're the last one in line.
Yeah I guess :/ hopefully I'll find another job soon so that can change.
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:29 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Not to sound too demanding, but everything costs money-- getting food to cook at home costs money. Internet costs money. Netflix costs money. If you have no money coming in, then how can you even afford that?

I sound like my republican dad, but you're just making excuses. Keeping a job isn't a matter of luck, especially when your employer gives you a chance to get on the right track.
I have some food stamps not a lot but I cook at home mostly anyway. And I borrow internet from neighbor.
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:41 PM
 
Location: South Florida
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I have some food stamps not a lot but I cook at home mostly anyway. And I borrow internet from neighbor.

Get a job where you can learn new skills and use as a stepping stone to an even better job... keep doing that if school isn't an option.
Get off food stamps.
You are clearly so much smarter and articulate than you give yourself credit for.
Don't live your entire existence around "getting a guy"... work on improving yourself.
(I don't mean that as critical-most people I know are always trying to improve themselves.)
Everything else will fall into place.
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Old 06-20-2017, 01:44 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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Yeah I guess :/ hopefully I'll find another job soon so that can change.

At least you WANT to work and that is a plus. Perhaps you should focus on finding a job that works with your skillset, work on becoming a bit more responsible, and then worry about the love life.


You seemingly have a positive attitude and that is key. Are there any vocational programs available to you at all? Do some research on those....


Good luck!
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