28 year old male virgin,(with experience) need advice (girl, sex, attractive)
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Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by zentropa
One more thought, OP. Are you afraid of being bisexual? Why? Millions of bisexual people are married and faithful. It's not a strange or abnormal thing to be.
Why does every time a guy says he is not attracted to girls who are attracted to him, his sexuality has to be brought into question? That is just insulting and outrageous.
One more thought, OP. Are you afraid of being bisexual? Why? Millions of bisexual people are married and faithful. It's not a strange or abnormal thing to be.
Huh?
Where in his posts made you think he might be bisexual?
Also, OP, nothing wrong with not losing your virginity to a woman you didn't find attractive. A lot of people lose their V-card just to say they lost it.
Maybe I'm nuts but seems to me if you're comfortable and happy enough to stick your face in it but not your male appendage, it might be a case of performance anxiety.
How can you say none of the women never wanted you, but still manage to make out, get naked, and have oral sex on each other?
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Originally Posted by old_cold
Maybe I'm nuts but seems to me if you're comfortable and happy enough to stick your face in it but not your male appendage, it might be a case of performance anxiety.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut
Confidence; which a lot of older virgin men lack.
Ain't that using a woman, which is the unpardonable sin on this forum? Or was it not being friends with a girl who rejects you the unpardonable sin? No wait, I remember now, it is not being interested in a girl because she approaches you, at least it was two days ago.
They rightfully believe their status will stop them in the future because they think they are obligated to TELL the woman their status. I believe that is an effort to lower all expectations on their "performance" and then in fact ensures the woman won't be interested. It's a vicious cycle...OP - do you know how many lousy lovers there are out there who don't even know it? You won't be worse than them, so stop making excuses.
JUST DO IT. You can care for a woman but you don't have to LOVE her or think she's your future spouse. Find someone nice that you respect and that respects you, but if you keep turning it into a big deal it will never happen.
Maybe I'm nuts but seems to me if you're comfortable and happy enough to stick your face in it but not your male appendage, it might be a case of performance anxiety.
You're not the first person on here to make that assumption, and I'll say it again, that's not the problem, The girls I really liked didn't want to go that far plain and simple, they both had intimacy issues, I was all set, that was on them. and another girl as I said I wouldn't have felt right going all the way with her, because she wanted us to be something that we were never going to be
How can you say none of the women never wanted you, but still manage to make out, get naked, and have oral sex on each other?
I never said no women ever wanted me, I'm just saying there seems to be a disconnect, when I really like a girl she either doesn't like me back or has intimacy issues, or they like me and I'm not attracted to them
But as Renee and I both said before, forget about the virgin status and just keep seeking a connection that works for both of you.
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