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Old 09-04-2017, 08:26 AM
 
Location: Deep Dirty South
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Do you think you're the only other woman he has on the hook like this? It's the mark of a cheater; he knows how to manipulate and to say the right things. "If only things were different....she doesn't understand me like you do..." It's all BS.
Yep. Unfortunately I have known many guys like this. If the OP were to pursue this, she would just be the next victim of his cheating.
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:28 AM
 
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Thank you, I am not. I just don't want to burn bridges, cause he is a cop and I am planning to be a cop in his agency, really don't want bad blood between him and me.
Too late and Police Officerss work for Police Departments not an agency.
By the way, he was probably cheating with you before he got married...
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:30 AM
 
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I am starting to understand it. I can't believe someone can keep in touch every day for two years, without any feelings. He put me in this hard place where I have to cut him off, someone that I am so used to talking every day.
Nope, you put yourself in this place so do not play victim here and blame him. You could have cut off all
contact months ago. There is this little area on that texting device called *block*.
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:33 AM
 
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Oh, I thought about that too. I expect that kind of stuff from him.
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:34 AM
 
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Agree. No one to blame but myself.
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:37 AM
 
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I am starting to understand it. I can't believe someone can keep in touch every day for two years, without any feelings. He put me in this hard place where I have to cut him off, someone that I am so used to talking every day.
He does have feelings for you, they're all between his legs.

Of course he could fall for you, then maybe he'll leave his wife and make you his wife, and then he'll find someone else to cheat with, and make her his wife. People get married and divorced all the time, multiple times.

If you need a guy, find one who isn't predisposed to being a cheater and a liar. Believe me if you have someone else to talk to everyday who isn't married you'll get over him a lot faster. Just block him, take a break and work on your picker.

Be a police officer with some other agency, big mystery why you think working with him would be a good idea...
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:40 AM
 
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I agree with all of you guys. But if I won't block him, but keep talking, what would be the result? I obviously won't have any dates with him, just friends. Is it possible?
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:42 AM
 
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I agree with all of you guys. But if I won't block him, but keep talking, what would be the result? I obviously won't have any dates with him, just friends. Is it possible?
If you agreed with everyone this question would not be posted.
One day I do hope you grasp the truth about this situation.
bylpph
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:48 AM
 
Location: Middletown, CT
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I agree with all of you guys. But if I won't block him, but keep talking, what would be the result? I obviously won't have any dates with him, just friends. Is it possible?
He. Does. Not. Want. To. Be. Friends. With. You.

Not possible. You need to block him
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Old 09-04-2017, 08:48 AM
 
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I really understand the situation. Thank you for your advice, I needed to hear more opinions before actually blocking him.
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