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Old 10-15-2017, 07:23 AM
 
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I have a girlfriend for 2.5 years now but i found out from an investigator that she has been going to male friends houses without letting me know about it. She said many lies to me that i will go to a females house insted she went to a males friend.she had sexting with another bloke with the intension of sexual intercource i found out by the investigator.when i comfronted her she told me that i wanted to get revenge of him because he is an assle.i didnt believe her because she already was lying.she told me to give her a second chance but i cant.can you help me please its very important to me.
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Old 10-15-2017, 07:50 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Help you what?
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Old 10-15-2017, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Pay the investigator and thank him for a job well done.
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Old 10-15-2017, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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You hired an investigator? Wow!
If you are accusing your GF of all that, then it's best for both of you to end the relationship. At that point there is no way to continue it.
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Old 10-15-2017, 09:15 AM
 
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I'll tell you like the others tell me: I'm sure they're just doing the dishes.
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Old 10-15-2017, 09:19 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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I think you already know the answer...
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Old 10-15-2017, 11:18 AM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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If you hired an investigator, there was already a serious trust problem between you two. How can a relationship work with no trust? End it.
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Old 10-15-2017, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Male friend houses, female friend houses, investigators..... Do whatever your culture expect you to do. Not enough info about your relationship and customs.
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Old 10-15-2017, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not boast. It is not proud.
It does not hire a private investigator to check up on your online activities.
Nor does it sneak around and slide into your DMs.
It is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered.
It does not like bikini photos of other hoes on Instagram.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things, believes all things, endures all things.
Except if you don't text back. Then it gets pissed.

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Old 10-15-2017, 01:36 PM
 
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If you hired an investigator, there was already a serious trust problem between you two. How can a relationship work with no trust? End it.
I don't understand this. He was proven right not to trust her. He thought something was up, and it was. If he wasnt trusting, and it turned it was for nothing, and she was faithful, then you would have a reason to point the finger at him for being mistrustful, but he was right.

It's kind of like the woman I saw last year. As soon as I showed her I was doubtful about things she would say, she'd pull the "how can we build anything without trust"? Meanwhile, she had started seeing someone behind my back, and lying when I told her I knew. She would bring up the trust thing.

IF YOU'RE LYING NO ONE SHOULD TRUST YOU!
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