Just a hypothetical question... (family, sleeping, fighting, cousins)

[AprilFlowers17]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

I would like it

I'm a light sleeper, so I would already feel you moving over toward me and it wouldn't be a surprise.

^^^^This. It wouldn't startle me unless they did a jumpscare while they kissed me lol, which, in that case, they would probably end up getting injured because I'd wake up swingin'

[Sonic_Spork]

Originally Posted by AprilFlowers17

^^^^This. It wouldn't startle me unless they did a jumpscare while they kissed me lol, which, in that case, they would probably end up getting injured because I'd wake up swingin'

OMG it would be funny to jumpscare someone who was trying to wake you with a gentle kiss. They're being all soft and quiet and you're just like "AAAH!!" right in their face.

LOL!

[ItsRick24]

My ex-wife used to flinch in fear. Her previous husband was an abuser.
One gf (after my divorce) would just nod quietly in acknowledgement when I kissed her.
Another gf actually kissed me back!

As one poster said, there's no "one size fits all"; different people, different reactions.

[Chowhound]

Someone is getting knocked the F out if they come creeping up on me when I'm sleeping.

[303Guy]

If my gf did that to me she needs to be prepaired for a wild session!

[Raena77]

What if you pulled on his nipples?

[ellie]

Kiss her on the shoulder, not on the face. It won’t startle her as much.

[303Guy]

Some women have been know to have been kissed somewhere else.

[HokieFan]

I guess I've been married too long. lol All I can think of is "ew, morning breath". At least brush your teeth first.

[Ann Onn]

Originally Posted by ellie

Kiss her on the shoulder, not on the face. It won’t startle her as much.

I second this, but I am a sucker for the back of the shoulder kiss. It feels very loving.