Do guys care how much girls eat on dates? (wife, internet, feelings)
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Do other things for dates, like a guided walk or tour, something hat does not involve food. Try & get into the habit of dividing the plate of food, in 2, before you start & bring the rest home for the next day. You can also have a one course meal, no need to make it 3 courses & go out for pie afterwards, that verges on gluttony.
Do other things for dates, like a guided walk or tour, something hat does not involve food. Try & get into the habit of dividing the plate of food, in 2, before you start & bring the rest home for the next day. You can also have a one course meal, no need to make it 3 courses & go out for pie afterwards, that verges on gluttony.
He tells her he "likes her appetite". At least we know he's diplomatic.
I typically wear a suit and try to mind my manners, when going on a job interview, unless it’s clear that it’s not that kind of job.
I've never worn a suit to a job interview.
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The impression she should should convey is that she wants to lose twenty pounds, as she mentioned in her post.
Why is that the impression she should convey?
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If she scarfs down everything in sight then she’s telling her date that she doesn’t care about her health or the limits of his generousity.
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Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut
Guys who encourage women to eat away and have dessert is telling a woman "hey if we were to get married and have kids i wont let the family starve" Lol its an instinctual man thing
No. She's not telling him that at all. And he's not telling her that at all.
How F'n ridiculous.
Eating a salad doesn't tell the other person that you're a vegetarian. So, eating what is offered doesn't tell anyone that she doesn't care about her health or the limits of his generosity.
The **** is wrong with people?
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There’s a big difference between showing up in a dirty sweatsuit for an interview and at least putting on a clean shirt and pants, like you would when dealing with the public.
Maybe you’re okay looking like a slob everywhere you go and eating like a pig when on a date, but if you’re trying to convey the message that you’re able to clean yourself up and be slightly brighter and more charming than twenty other candidates, you show you them you can do it.
Maybe ordering something off the menu and eating it is analogous to wearing a shirt and pants and not a never washed thong.
My 2 cents. It doesn't matter if you're male or female. The type of gluttonous behavior you described would be unattractive regardless. Sorry.
That's up to this particular guy to decide, don't you think?
However, if OP would like to do differently, as she suggests she does,
the hints about having a little something before the date and water are good ones.
But, jeesus, do NOT pretend to be someone you're not unless you think you can keep up that façade forever.
My 2 cents. It doesn't matter if you're male or female. The type of gluttonous behavior you described would be unattractive regardless. Sorry.
To YOU.
To her date, not so much. The fact that he took her to 5 different eating establishments in ONE date suggests otherwise.
She already sees that there's an issue, which is why she brought it up. Some have made actual suggestions on how to get a handle on it, but others have just passed judgement.
You sure can eat! I'd say don't overthink go ahead enjoy yourself, if that scares the date off then so be it. You need to date someone who enjoys food as much as you do.
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At least we know he's diplomatic.
