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LOL.. But of course YOU are SAD because you didn't get the CONQUEST .. RIGHT?
LOL again!! You appear to be somewhat desperate.. and want to complain about it ... SAD for you.. BUT get over yourself!! > Whatever occurred.. LEARN.. NOT all women will KISS your ways.. LEARNING Curve for you.. and maybe learn to read whomever you deal with!!
Women of today actually do see thru and decide a lot of things beyond you.. MEN no LONGER CONTROL women!! Step up to the plate for the RIGHT person.. take your time and PROVE yourself to them...
SADNESS is always a cue.. Means you failed on whatever your approach was Keep your chin up.. OR maybe go to some other culture who "WOMEN" are more Submissive!!
WTF are you talking about?! What's this men controlling women? Are you replying to the wrong thread?
I am going to have to agree that it's really unhealthy for you to follow these people around on SM...not that every person is healthy 100% of the time, we have our curiosities and our weaknesses, but this can only hurt you. Somebody pointed out that at some point you'll see kissing wedding pictures...baby pics...etc...and that's all true. It will cut you right to the heart. You need to be strong and just Unfriend them, and don't look. Move along to your own future. You DO have a future. Hang in there.
To the OP, it sounds like you're the exact type that needs a real kick in the a--. Fortunately I will give it to you.
Now you don't reveal too much with regards to how long you actually dated this woman or how old you are, but regardless, I can tell you with certainty that if you're anything over 21 years old and you're crying on V-Day eve over seeing a past love/ex girlfriend getting engaged, then you have a lot of learning to do. It's time to reclaim your dignity as a man.
Based on your sensitivity, chances are you're a great stand up guy with other prospects as you said you have, who should be happy to go out with you. What happened with this other woman is over, clearly, as hard as that might be to accept, although it sounds like you should have already accepted it a LONG time ago. Looking at pictures of her and her new dudes tattoos will ONLY bring you more heartache and pain which it's clear you are in.
The correct way to deal with this is 100% NO CONTACT. That goes from texting all the way to your eyes seeing anything to do with her. If you for some reason still follow her on social media, either unfriend her or unfollow her. Move on with your life and start dating some women who know you're a great catch, which is something your ex was unable to see, one way or another. As long as you didn't do anything insane or ridiculous like cheat or snap at her, then it's her loss and her loss only. I'm never ever one for cliches in my life but if there was ever one area where I realized "If it's meant to be it will be" is accurate is the dating world. If you were supposed to be together forever you would have. Even in the future if something ever happens it will.
But right now you MUST move forward with this mentality and you will find that it doesn't matter how many times you get dumped, bc you're a great guy and one day you will find a woman who respects and likes you for you, who will knock your socks off and this ex will go from a semi-emotion filled memory to complete afterthought.
you're a great catch, which is something your ex was unable to see, one way or another. As long as you didn't do anything insane or ridiculous like cheat or snap at her, then it's her loss and her loss only.
Or maybe it just didn't work out.
I've dated plenty of people who were great people, but it didn't work out for one reason or another. No one's loss. Just the way it is.
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... SAD for you.. BUT get over yourself!! > Whatever occurred.. LEARN.. NOT all women will KISS your ways.. LEARNING Curve for you.. and maybe learn to read whomever you deal with!! 
Somebody pointed out that at some point you'll see kissing wedding pictures...baby pics...etc...and that's all true. It will cut you right to the heart. You need to be strong and just Unfriend them, and don't look. Move along to your own future. You DO have a future. 
Hang in there.
