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Old 03-16-2018, 01:57 PM
 
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I'm dating my girlfriend for a few months, she's ten years younger and sometimes I think she is a gold digger because everytime we go out she never offers to pay or split the bill. And everytime time we see each other I always pick her up and drop her off, she has car and never goes to my place with her car! Red flags?
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:00 PM
 
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Yeah at this point it sounds like she is using you. Why don't you bring it up to her?
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:04 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Communication. Tell her what bothers you. Does she have income of her own?
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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We told you this was a bad idea last month, remember?
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:05 PM
 
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Communication. Tell her what bothers you. Does she have income of her own?
Yeah she has her job but I make more money than her!
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We told you this was a bad idea last month, remember?
I remember!
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Yeah at this point it sounds like she is using you. Why don't you bring it up to her?
I will.
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:19 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I will.
tonight!!
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:25 PM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Communication. Tell her what bothers you. Does she have income of her own?

Yes, just discuss it with her. Not so sure about the gold digger aspect...there are still guys who like to pay for dates, she may just be used to that.

Dutch style, to be fair to both parties
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:27 PM
 
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Actually I make more money than her so I don't mind paying BUT she never offers? Never bought me anything, not even a cheap gift!
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:29 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Actually I make more money than her so I don't mind paying BUT she never offers? Never bought me anything, not even a cheap gift!
Maybe she's not a gold-digger, per se, but she just doesn't have any manners? Either way, it's pretty inconsiderate.
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Old 03-16-2018, 02:33 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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she never offers? Never bought me anything, not even a cheap gift!

The last part is a red flag.
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