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Old 05-26-2018, 03:26 AM
 
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So i dated my ex for a year from 2015-2016. We mutually ended the relationship and didn’t feel the connection anymore. I recently ran into him and we started texting again, he wanted to talk and get a drink. We got a drink and i ended up at his place and we madeout. He told me he wasn’t looking for anything serious, no obligations. I told him that i think it’s best we just move on, and he got angry and said he didnt want to see me again, and then we stopped talking. My mom recently came into town to visit me and he has never met her in the past but i showed him pictures of her. So the other day i was at the mall with my mother and my ex approaches me and smiles and introduces himself to my mother as my friend. It was awkward... do you think my ex is still interested in me or playing games?
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Old 05-26-2018, 06:32 AM
 
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Ignore.

He sounds manipulative and unstable.
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Old 05-26-2018, 06:43 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Ignore.

He sounds manipulative and unstable.
Absolutely. How strange

No more random make-outs with him either, OP.
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Old 05-26-2018, 06:51 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Are YOU interested, OP?
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Old 05-26-2018, 08:07 AM
 
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He just introduced himself to your mother as a friend. Christ the guy probably heard hours of you talking about the lady. I’d want to meet her to even if we had nothing to do with each other any longer.
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Old 05-26-2018, 08:11 AM
 
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If he is at all interested in you, it isn't for another full relationship. At best, it would be an arrangement where he would call you up for a booty call and then be done with you until the next time. That's why he's stringing you along, because he's hoping you'll get hooked enough to accept the crumbs that he's willing to give you. If you want a real relationship with a man who wants to be with you, this guy is NOT the one. He's made that pretty clear already based on what you've said has happened.
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Old 05-26-2018, 08:35 AM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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If he is at all interested in you, it isn't for another full relationship. At best, it would be an arrangement where he would call you up for a booty call and then be done with you until the next time. That's why he's stringing you along, because he's hoping you'll get hooked enough to accept the crumbs that he's willing to give you. If you want a real relationship with a man who wants to be with you, this guy is NOT the one. He's made that pretty clear already based on what you've said has happened.

THIS....

stay away OP, wait for a real man to come along, not a selfish baby.
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Old 05-26-2018, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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THIS....

stay away OP, wait for a real man to come along, not a selfish baby.
If that's even possible! OP created 9 threads about her ex...
Asking and pondering: he wants me... he wants me not...
Lol
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Old 05-26-2018, 12:32 PM
 
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Well, he wanted sex but you stopped with just making out.

That was a little mean in my opinion.

When you ended it he moved on till he saw an opportunity to introduce himself to your mom and possibly get his noodle wet by you for being so thoughtful.

You might have nibbled the bait.

He just wants to do you. Nothing more. If that’s ok then there He is
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Old 05-26-2018, 01:05 PM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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If that's even possible! OP created 9 threads about her ex...
Asking and pondering: he wants me... he wants me not...
Lol

Oh....
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