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Old 09-24-2018, 04:10 AM
 
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It’s almost a year since I kept on going to dating tours but I wasn’t happy at all. I’m meeting new people but none of them caught my attention. I still love my ex but I know it’s impossible at all. Few months ago, my boyfriend got her step sister pregnant. So damn, right? Because of that, we broke up. I broke up with him. I couldn’t let him run away from his responsibility because I, myself, is a bastard and I know what it feels like to be one. He told me it was an accident but I was pretty certain his step sister is hitting on him. I know because I can feel it whenever I visit him in their house. But that’s not the issue here. Even though I love him, I didn’t want a child to grow without a father, so I chose to let him go and I did not regret it because I know I made the right decision. I just hope he will be a good father to his baby.
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Old 09-24-2018, 08:03 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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It’s almost a year since I kept on going to dating tours but I wasn’t happy at all. I’m meeting new people but none of them caught my attention. I still love my ex but I know it’s impossible at all. Few months ago, my boyfriend got her step sister pregnant. So damn, right? Because of that, we broke up. I broke up with him. I couldn’t let him run away from his responsibility because I, myself, is a bastard and I know what it feels like to be one. He told me it was an accident but I was pretty certain his step sister is hitting on him. I know because I can feel it whenever I visit him in their house. But that’s not the issue here. Even though I love him, I didn’t want a child to grow without a father, so I chose to let him go and I did not regret it because I know I made the right decision. I just hope he will be a good father to his baby.
Dating tours? What is that??


He got HER stepsister pregnant - whose stepsister?? Your post is confusing.
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Old 09-24-2018, 09:42 AM
 
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pure class
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Old 09-24-2018, 09:47 AM
 
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I think she means “his stepsister” (her ex boyfriend step sister)

You did the right thing OP
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Old 09-24-2018, 09:50 AM
 
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eve - nowadays I let a lot of confusion slide because of phones and autocorrect - you're right though, I don't know what "dating tours" means. Later in the post the OP says "his step sister", which makes more sense but eww.

OP - IMO your decision was correct however your reasoning is off. Regardless of the eww, your ex-boyfriend cheated on you. Even if you "love him", he didn't apparently didn't really love you. I also hope that he'll be a "good father", but I doubt it, I'm concerned for the well-being of the child.
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Old 09-25-2018, 05:45 AM
 
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Hi. I am a bisexual which means I get attracted to both men and women. I have been going into these dating tours where most men who join are those who are in search of a new relationship. We get to interact with different foreign women whom we can get to have a date with during the tour and even after. Anyway, going back to the topic, my boyfriend got his step sister pregnant and although I am quite doubtful on how their relationship is going to be "normal", I'm still hoping that they live happily and that the child grows to be a good person, unlike his dad.
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Old 09-25-2018, 05:48 AM
 
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pure class
I just laughed out loud. Seriously.


Oozes class, doesn't it?
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Old 09-25-2018, 05:53 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Well congratulations to you both! Congrats that you broke up with him, and him having a baby with his step-sister��
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