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Old 10-05-2018, 07:48 AM
 
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i recently saw a cute girl cashier at sears and i asked where the tool section was and i asked for her name and i gave her my name back and then i asked if you want to hang out and she said she was busy with work and i understood went home.


but now im thinking about going back in two weeks to ask for her number im going to buy something first so it's not creepy but i need advice first, should i go back and ask for her number or is her saying that she's busy with work means that she's not interested in me? because she probably thought it means that she can hang out right now. i dont know im very new at this.
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Old 10-05-2018, 07:51 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Her saying she was busy with work was her saying "no". Leave her alone and move on.
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Old 10-05-2018, 08:16 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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but now im thinking about going back in two weeks to ask for her number im going to buy something first so it's not creepy but i need advice first, should i go back and ask for her number or is her saying that she's busy with work means that she's not interested in me? because she probably thought it means that she can hang out right now. i dont know im very new at this.
You should not go back. She is paid to serve you and be friendly. Don’t make her have to risk that by being more firm about the answer she already gave you.
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Old 10-05-2018, 08:18 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Her saying she was busy with work was her saying "no". Leave her alone and move on.
Right, if she was even a little bit interested she would have said that she doesn't work Sundays or that she finishes at 8. "I'm busy," is a polite "no."
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:07 AM
 
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Right, if she was even a little bit interested she would have said that she doesn't work Sundays or that she finishes at 8. "I'm busy," is a polite "no."

got it, another question when i do find someone i like, do i ask her for her number or do i have to keep coming back and ask for her number?
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:13 AM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Be careful about asking any cashier/teller/service employee out. Many companies have rules about dating customers.
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:14 AM
 
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got it, another question when i do find someone i like, do i ask her for her number or do i have to keep coming back and ask for her number?
You have to wait until you get to know them a little bit, and vice versa, or it won't work.
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:16 AM
 
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Be careful about asking any cashier/teller/service employee out. Many companies have rules about dating customers.
Um, no they don't. You're talking about employees dating employees.
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:18 AM
 
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Um, no they don't. You're talking about employees dating employees.
Umm, yes they do.
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:19 AM
 
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i recently saw a cute girl cashier at sears and i asked where the tool section was and i asked for her name and i gave her my name back and then i asked if you want to hang out and she said she was busy with work and i understood went home.


but now im thinking about going back in two weeks to ask for her number im going to buy something first so it's not creepy but i need advice first, should i go back and ask for her number or is her saying that she's busy with work means that she's not interested in me? because she probably thought it means that she can hang out right now. i dont know im very new at this.

Sure go ahead. She will let you know whether she is open to it or not.


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got it, another question when i do find someone i like, do i ask her for her number or do i have to keep coming back and ask for her number?

It's best to ask her for her number the first time.
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