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Old 04-08-2008, 11:03 AM
 
Location: Florida
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...how do men bond?
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Old 04-08-2008, 11:06 AM
 
Location: Victoria, BC.
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Huh?....Women bond through sex? Do they really?
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Old 04-08-2008, 11:10 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Beer-sports- cars-farting-fishing-telling lies-scratching ourselves in public-belching songs. We bond in all sorts of cool ways!!!!
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Old 04-08-2008, 11:12 AM
 
Location: Southern NC
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Beer-sports- cars-farting-fishing-telling lies-scratching ourselves in public-belching songs. We bond in all sorts of cool ways!!!!

So true!
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Old 04-08-2008, 11:15 AM
 
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what do you mean women bond through sex? i dont think they do. i think we bond through talking and the things that happen before and after sex...
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Old 04-08-2008, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Boca Raton, FL
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Smile Bond with who?

If you mean, women bond with other women - just fun stuff, shopping, all the girl stuff.

Men bond in the ways a prior poster mentioned. Did you also mention cars?

If you mean, can women bond with their man sexwise? Of course. As they grow, there are more things that will bond them to each other if that is what you mean.
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Old 04-08-2008, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Sorry let me start over....let's say my friend has been dating her boyfriend for a few months...she likes him, he likes her...now they do the nasty & she's bonded "with him"....but he still remains a bit distant...(in my opinion)...they talk for hours a number of times during the week and play the texting game, but as far as quality time...not quite so much...

She is now wondering why he isn't getting closer...(I think she text's him way too much...there doesn't seem to be a lot of action on his part with contact)...

I mean it's one thing if it's booty call and you both know where things lie, but in true relationship dating.....it always seems that once sex gets involved, a lot of men get freaked out and become distant...why, why, why...

I told her not to let her heart get involved (emotionally so soon), she didn't listen...I told her not to call/text him so much...she didn't listen...thoughts?
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Old 04-08-2008, 12:03 PM
 
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i think she became too clingy too soon and is pushing him away. dont ask me why men are this way (some women are this way too)
maybe he just wants a fling and she thinks it's something more
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Old 04-08-2008, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Sorry let me start over....let's say my friend has been dating her boyfriend for a few months...she likes him, he likes her...now they do the nasty & she's bonded "with him"....but he still remains a bit distant...(in my opinion)...they talk for hours a number of times during the week and play the texting game, but as far as quality time...not quite so much...

She is now wondering why he isn't getting closer...(I think she text's him way too much...there doesn't seem to be a lot of action on his part with contact)...

I mean it's one thing if it's booty call and you both know where things lie, but in true relationship dating.....it always seems that once sex gets involved, a lot of men get freaked out and become distant...why, why, why...

I told her not to let her heart get involved (emotionally so soon), she didn't listen...I told her not to call/text him so much...she didn't listen...thoughts?
How to say this? men are always accused of thinking with their d***s. Isnt this an example that of what women think with?
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Old 04-08-2008, 12:07 PM
 
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Well, let me answer your question with a joke.

A little girl gets up in the middle of the night, hears a noise coming from her parents' bedroom, and peers in. Disturbed by what she sees, she creeps back to bed.

The next morning, her mother is driving the little girl to school. The little girl pipes up and asks, "Mommy, why were you and daddy naked in bed last night? Both of you were making a lot of noise."

The mother pauses for a moment, and decides that honest is the best policy, and replies, "Well, sweetie, that's how we get babies."

The little girl thinks for a second, and then asks, "Well, then why was Dad's thing in your mouth?"

The mother replies, without skipping a beat, "Well, sweetie, that's how we get jewelry."
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