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Old 02-06-2019, 11:49 PM
 
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Should I anonymously tell the girlfriend about the guy's cheating or just let nature take its course?
Let nature take its course.
You may wind up losing all the friends over the issue if you get involved. Getting involved only complicates things. If your friend wasnt having fun being the cheat girl, she would have stopped once she found out her role. Your friend has no commitment, no responibility this way. Sometimes people like that angle.
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Old 02-06-2019, 11:56 PM
 
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No most don't get caught from my experience
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Old 02-07-2019, 12:02 AM
 
Location: As of 2022….back to SoCal. OC this time!
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No most don't get caught from my experience
Heck..how can you say that? Lol...O.P. knows about it & his friend knows! Most people on this forum that talk about cheating...are always talking about their "friends". I wonder how all the friends always seem to know, but none of the people directly involved ever do!
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Old 02-07-2019, 07:02 AM
 
Location: SF/Mill Valley
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Yeah - I think most cheaters do eventually get caught. There are only so many lies a person can tell before - sooner or later - truth is revealed.
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Old 02-07-2019, 07:25 AM
 
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What is your relation to these people?

The "side piece" is this person's friend.
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Old 02-07-2019, 07:26 AM
 
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Heck..how can you say that? Lol...O.P. knows about it & his friend knows! Most people on this forum that talk about cheating...are always talking about their "friends". I wonder how all the friends always seem to know, but none of the people directly involved ever do!

Because the friends are reluctant to be the ones to have to tell.
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Old 02-07-2019, 07:32 AM
 
Location: SF/Mill Valley
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Because the friends are reluctant to be the ones to have to tell.
Sounds drama-esque. Cheaters are usually exposed eventually, anyway. So are lies.
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Old 02-07-2019, 07:33 AM
 
Location: Glasgow Scotland
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IMO, I think most people DO get caught. Most people aren't capable of being so smooth about lying. They act different toward their girlfriends/boyfriends/mates, etc.


But that said, there are plenty of people who very slick and smooth about their lying and cheating ways...because they don't feel guilt about it.
and the ones who tell their suspicious partners that they need help and imaginging things..
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Old 02-07-2019, 07:41 AM
 
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I don't cheat anyone because I don't have any girlfriend, end of story.
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Old 02-07-2019, 07:45 AM
 
Location: SF/Mill Valley
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I don't cheat anyone because I don't have any girlfriend, end of story.
Most (happy) guys don’t cheat. I think the thread is about whether cheaters get caught or not, or whether OP should tell about some guy she has been ‘studying’.
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