Do guys who cheat always end up getting caught or not? (boyfriend, cheating)
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I realize studying this guys behavior is probably useless. But still interesting to me. Like why would he keep up with unprotected sex knowing he's gotten burned several times before...I think he's stupid and gross. He couldn't possibly care for his girlfriend with this behavior or my friend. And he's not a little boy either, he's 38 years old. I'll be glad when my friend moves on.
Seriously some people are trash at any age. That's just all there is to it. *shrug*
I realize studying this guys behavior is probably useless. But still interesting to me. Like why would he keep up with unprotected sex knowing he's gotten burned several times before...I think he's stupid and gross. He couldn't possibly care for his girlfriend with this behavior or my friend. And he's not a little boy either, he's 38 years old. I'll be glad when my friend moves on.
Why does the booty call put up with his demands for unprotected sex?
I know this might be a simple question but it made me wonder. Do all guys who cheat get caught? I wonder if the guy's girlfriend will ever find out about his behavior or will he get away with this conduct forever? My friend only caught him by chance otherwise she still would not know either.
No; not all guys who cheat get caught. Half of that is luck & half of it is avoiding dumb mistakes & learning from the first few mistakes.
You realize that if the guys GF doesn’t want to see the red flags, she won’t? Who knows if or when she might. Some women never do.
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My next question is do guys with girlfriends cheat with multiple women at a time? This may be the case for this guy I don't know.
Some do.
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And, why does he keep pursing my friend if all he wants her for is a booty call when he can easily get other women and has a girlfriend? I understand my friend needs to say no and protect her body but he's very diligent about keeping her around. Again, why if he has options?
To pass the time. Different girls bring different things to the table. If he wanted her for a relationship, it would already be done. But he doesn’t.
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Aren't booty calls replaceable? My friend also recently learned from someone the guy has a history of stds (plural) from another source but never told her...so I think this has helped her to wise up and move towards ending things with this guy.
This situation is just interesting to me so I am posting to get others thoughts. Sorry for the multiple questions.
They are replaceable if they aren’t convenient enough.
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I realize studying this guys behavior is probably useless. But still interesting to me. Like why would he keep up with unprotected sex knowing he's gotten burned several times before...I think he's stupid and gross. He couldn't possibly care for his girlfriend with this behavior or my friend. And he's not a little boy either, he's 38 years old. I'll be glad when my friend moves on.
Your friend should move on...but so should you! Lol...
Your friend's love life and poor choice in men is not your business.
As for the other questions some men/women cheat. Some do not. Some get caught, some do not. Some have many one night stands, some have many affairs, some only cheat once. Some regret it, some don't. People are individuals and they all do things for different reasons. Affairs aren't all the same any more than every marriage is the same.
I realize studying this guys behavior is probably useless. But still interesting to me. Like why would he keep up with unprotected sex knowing he's gotten burned several times before...I think he's stupid and gross. He couldn't possibly care for his girlfriend with this behavior or my friend. And he's not a little boy either, he's 38 years old. I'll be glad when my friend moves on.
The situation doesn’t sound healthy at all - for anyone. But why are you studying his behavior - and giving this unhealthy dynamic so much attention? All you can do is be there for your friend. And honestly, it sounds as though your friend is making some extremely poor choices.
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