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This is what a woman said to me after talking a dating for a few months.
She said she can’t commit to anyone at this moment, but herself and her career.
Is there a way to swoop her up and tell her to give it a shot?
I was in a situation like this before.
I wanted to date but not that guy and I brought so many excuses.
It is just how she feels and she may changes her mind later.
james112 will be along in a minute to give you a play-by-play on how, but I wouldn't recommend it.
You know me too well Birdie! However, in this case she is telling him it's over. And he must respect that and leave her alone. He should say something like "Hey thanks what we shared and I hope you career takes off. " And then he leavesheralone.
This is different from guys having problems with their gf's. When a women wants to stop dating the guy must respect that. Recovery is too late. I will say this, I'd bet his dating skills got sloppy. He was either needy, seeking approval, texting too much, or something like that and was not in touch with her feelings.
He must not contact her again. It's up to her to contact him if she ever wants.
This is what a woman said to me after talking a dating for a few months.
She said she can’t commit to anyone at this moment, but herself and her career.
Is there a way to swoop her up and tell her to give it a shot?
No. She is being truthful. You have two choices. Wait for her until she gets the “right” time (which btw is probably never or after she had a few kids and the other guy walked into the sunset and needs a guy to help her) or you simply move on. If a woman told me that I would simply move on. I’m not going to expend the effort to convince her. There are plenty of women out there
you can be sure because if she was really into you she would figure out how to make it the right time. I suspect like someone else says, she does want to let you down easy. So she doesn't dislike you as a buddy, but she isn't in to you as mr. Right. Just take it for what it is, and move on. Be glad she was honest and forthright enough to tell you rather than string it along.
This is what a woman said to me after talking a dating for a few months.
She said she can’t commit to anyone at this moment, but herself and her career.
Is there a way to swoop her up and tell her to give it a shot?
No... she can’t commit to YOU because Larry Longdick somehow came into the picture and is rocking her world...
You also might be coming across too needy since she is basically saying she needs space for herself... its okay to feel the desire for a committed relationship if that’s what you want but it’s not with this girl so start dating other women so at the very least it will take your mind a little more off her.
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