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Old 09-24-2022, 12:59 AM
 
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Dating apps make it easier to meet people and are good.

But there's some examples of dating apps being DANGEROUS!

There was Stephen Port, a British serial killer who used the app Grindr to find victims.

There was also Wade Riley out in Las Vegas who killed women on match dotcom.

And there are many stories of women using these platforms to lure men into robberies. One used plenty of fish, and there was a story in NYC last Spring of a woman who met a guy in Instagram and convinced him to meet her in an apartment in the Bronx where he was accosted by goons who tortured him and then put him on face-time with his family to extort money from them in exchange for his release!

These apps are convenience but seem dangerous. Yet there's so many people using hem and feel most comfortable using them to meet dates or friends.

I'd like to try one out some time, but they sound DANGEROUS and scary!
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Old 09-24-2022, 02:38 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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I'd like to try one out some time, but they sound DANGEROUS and scary!

Not if you use universal precautions and common sense.
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Old 09-24-2022, 10:07 AM
 
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Not if you use universal precautions and common sense.
What are some precautions that I should use to be safe when using these apps?
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Old 09-24-2022, 10:42 AM
 
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What are some precautions that I should use to be safe when using these apps?
Drive yourself. Meet in public.
My favorite: Note where the exits are.
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Old 09-24-2022, 11:40 AM
 
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Drive yourself. Meet in public.
My favorite: Note where the exits are.
Good advice

A lot of these situations occur when people meet a stranger at a hotel or apartment somewhere without knowing them well first.
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Old 09-24-2022, 03:56 PM
 
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Crossing the street can be dangerous if you don't use common sense.
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Old 09-24-2022, 05:08 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Watch your drinks.
Keep very personal info to yourself, untill you know that person better.

https://www.scienceofpeople.com/first-date/

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Old 09-24-2022, 05:27 PM
 
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What are some precautions that I should use to be safe when using these apps?
if you search the web with that question you will find much more information than you need to know. All dating sites post safety precautions.
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Old 09-29-2022, 12:54 PM
 
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Apps are not dangerous, people are dangerous.
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Old 09-29-2022, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Ruston, Louisiana
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Dating apps make it easier to meet people and are good.

But there's some examples of dating apps being DANGEROUS!

There was Stephen Port, a British serial killer who used the app Grindr to find victims.

There was also Wade Riley out in Las Vegas who killed women on match dotcom.

And there are many stories of women using these platforms to lure men into robberies. One used plenty of fish, and there was a story in NYC last Spring of a woman who met a guy in Instagram and convinced him to meet her in an apartment in the Bronx where he was accosted by goons who tortured him and then put him on face-time with his family to extort money from them in exchange for his release!

These apps are convenience but seem dangerous. Yet there's so many people using hem and feel most comfortable using them to meet dates or friends.

I'd like to try one out some time, but they sound DANGEROUS and scary!
I have used them many times and never had a bad experience. But, you never know and I will never do it again. Not because of the dangers you mention, but because of the damage to self esteem, frustration, wastes of valuable time, etc. Most people are not who the portray themselves to be and it's just a bad experience all the way around, and it IS dangerous as well. I think if you use good judgment and are careful meeting someone, especially if you have mutual friends or acquaintances it's better. I wouldn't advise using them at all for a number of reasons, other than those mentioned. Just my oppinion.
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