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If your partner wants you to pleasure them but they don't want to pleasure you. Is it one sided?And what would you say to get it to change without making it seem like it's transactional or conditional. Like not saying you'll only pleasure them only with certain conditions.
If your partner wants you to pleasure them but they don't want to pleasure you. Is it one sided?And what would you say to get it to change without making it seem like it's transactional or conditional. Like not saying you'll only pleasure them only with certain conditions.
Are you talking about the guy that wants you to come over and cuddle? Or do you have an actual partner? Cuz if it's cuddle boy.....bahaahaha! Put on your boots and walk.
If your partner wants you to pleasure them but they don't want to pleasure you. Is it one sided?And what would you say to get it to change without making it seem like it's transactional or conditional. Like not saying you'll only pleasure them only with certain conditions.
Yes that is definitely one sided. All of the answers will depend on a little more information about your relationship. Like how well you know the person, how long you've been together, etc. before advising how to go about talking to them. However, talking about it is going to be the only way unless you don't say anything, stop pleasing them and let them figure it out for themselves. It could be that this individual is inexperienced or uncomfortable for some reason. Communication is the only way out of this one.
If your partner wants you to pleasure them but they don't want to pleasure you. Is it one sided? And what would you say to get it to change without making it seem like it's transactional or conditional. Like not saying you'll only pleasure them only with certain conditions.
Eh. This a simple matter of incompatibility combined with self-centeredness on the part of your partner.
Time to "next" this person as a person who is selfish in bed is often a selfish person when out of bed, too.
If your partner wants you to pleasure them but they don't want to pleasure you. Is it one sided?And what would you say to get it to change without making it seem like it's transactional or conditional. Like not saying you'll only pleasure them only with certain conditions.
Adults that are in relationships involving "pleasuring" behavior should be able to have simple conversations about it. If its a particular act you want to engage in and your partner doesn't, explain what you want and why. Maybe there is something else you can engage in, Maybe not. But if it is important enough for you, end the relationship if it feels like you are being used. At the end of the day, "pleasuring" between consenting adults cannot be something you are afraid to talk about. No one should have to do anything they do not want to do, but also, its okay to end a relationship because you are not a match in these things. Relationships should help people find happiness, not find stress and sadness. Best of luck to you both.
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