Did i scared her/ pushed her away?

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by Suburban_Guy

This is why it's imperative to properly read a girl's physical and verbal cues early on in the courtship, and within a few days act on it if you think it is genuine.

Yeah, it helps if you actually look at her!

[Okey Dokie]

Originally Posted by E-Twist

I also suggest try holding a hand before going for the thigh or an arm around the waist. And remember that all women are different. Someone else may have been okay with the move, especially considering it was a fourth date.

Better luck next time.

I’m probably old enough to be your Grandma, but I agree a hand on the thigh for a first physical move is probably not the best. Hand holding or an arm around the shoulder would have been much better. IMO.