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Because I never saw him more than a FWB and never have been more interested in him than that. It was just our most recent interaction that made me wonder a little bit.
Only a person with another partner or partners would wait a whole month for an app to remind them to have sex with you again..
It is what it is, enjoy it and/or move on.
Or just a FWB. I am enjoying the sex. Again, I am actually not trying for more but our latest interaction made me wonder a bit and you can say piqued my curiosity. Previous to yesterday I saw him only as a good time in the sack and a nice cute guy. That was all.
And it's good sex and he lives above a Target and HomeGoods so it's super convenient afterwards lol.
I get it, it's just I have felt more emotional vibes from him at times. It could be that he is lonely and not so much into me as I amy think. As I mentioned in another post, I forgot to mention the second time we had sex when we were done, he asked me if I wanted him to make coffee for me. I interpret that as him wanting me to stick around a little bit and have coffee with him.
Usually with random hookups/sex/FWB, I am kind of like when we are done with the deed, let's be on our way haha.
The "F" in FWB stands for "friends"--you can have no-strings sex and still be kind and interested in each other outside of the bedroom.
You need to talk to him. All we can do is speculate. You are in the situation physically and therefore you need to present mentally and communicate effectively. It's not hard. Do you have friends IRL you can talk to about stuff like this? Seems pretty trivial.
It's an easy test. Go have fun with him one night but say you're not in the mood for sex. If he's cool with that and wants to do something with you another time, you have your answer.
When my wife and I were dating about six weeks, she was ready. So was I, but I kind of sensed this woman was really one-of-a-kind, which meant I wanted it to be the right time and the right place, not just sneaking downstairs into the basement of her parents' house. So I said, "Not tonight. Let's do this the right way." And I'm glad we did it that way.
Thanks everyone for the responses. Again, it's not that I am scared to ask and TBH I saw him more strictly as FWB so never occurred for me to seek something more. I am going to try to meet up this week and see. The sex is good, and we have nice chats and I am very attracted to him, so to me going on a date I totally would be down. But also completely okay if that doesn't happen because I don't feel an emotional connection with him, at least not yet.
This post really stems from when he messaged me "when do I get to see you?" it kind of triggered a, "Hmmmmm" response from me. And it made me rewind to our past interactions. Like during sex, he would stare deep into my eyes so deep I got a little uncomfortable and would look away, but it was this deep look that I am not used to, like looking into my soul. I will admit it was little weird lol. After sex, we laid in bed, I was just laying in his bed on my back facing up, while he laid on his side and just looked at me while I laid there and cooled off, just looking at me as I looked up at ceiling. Then there was the coffee offer after that.
I say all this because in the end I realize my body language and interactions are less emotional and more just intentionally sexual. So in a way I ask myself "Is he just more intimate or emotional when it comes to sex and that's all it is?" or have I been maybe ignoring not seeing signs that there is potential. I dunno.
OP, no strangers on the Internet can know what your buddy is thinking. Ask him. This thread is now closed.
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