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I am 26 years old, male, and not religious (but I am spiritual, "religion is to spirituality what the DMV is to driving"-Bill Maher) And I am DISGUSTED by the notion of people having sex with someone who THEY JUST MET! *
I was at a party ( I left early, as I am not big on debauchery of any kind) and there were people ages 10-27ish there, and an aquaintance of mine's roommate met this girl there and they slept together, that night The next morning, they had breakfast at a diner, and never saw eachother again...
AM I THE ONLY NON-FUNDAMENTALIST MALE WHO THINKS THIS IS JUST SICK?!
I hear, all the time, young people talking about "hocking up" and it boogles the mind. I mean, male or female, how can you NOT feel dirty about sleeping with someone who's last name you don't even know, let alone are not in a long term relationship with? It is simply disgusting...nevermind little things called AIDS, HERPES, CRABS...
Despite what the media would have you believe, I do believe that there are a silent majority of men out there like me, who just want a nice, committed relationship before sex. I could not imagine having sex with someone I do not have feelings for. Could I be sexually attracted to someone I don't know? Sure...but I like cars I see all the time, does that mean I will go ahead and steal them? It's called MORALITY, SELF CONTROL, and thinking about the CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS. Something young people, especially males, should learn these days!
* But, in all fairness, I am also terrified of the notion of sex, so I might not be the best example of the heterosexual male mentality. I look at it the way I look at slaying a Dragon...something that's nice to read books about, watch movies about, listen to songs about, and daydream about, but to actually, physically do it
Like approaching a thirty foot long, eight foot high fire-spitting fanged reptile that makes a tyrannosaurus Rex look like the lizard from the Geico commercials with a puny sword with the intend on cutting it's head off, I look at getting*gulp* nude and touching a woman on her unmentionables and laying with one as being something that's best left to the trained professionals, so I admit, my view on casual sex might be a bit biased.
Duh. Me. I am the most anti-casual sex person on here.
The most casual type of sex I've been involved with has only been safe sex. No penetration. Kissing, touching, etc only. Even then it feels weird because the guy is not committed nor willing to keep in touch or stay friends (which I know is soo difficult to do). Although they will tell lies about that or tell me what I want to hear just to get the sexual intimacy out of me.
The OP asked: "any other guys grossed out by casual sex" The answer is, of course, yes. Neither men nor women all think alike. The number of men who are "grossed out" by casual sex is certainly greater than 1.
But am I grossed out by casual sex? No, I'm not. If I wasn't married (or in a committed relationship) I would be a regular practitioner.
Oh ughhhhhhhhhh bleah, gross. I hate casual sex. Eew-ee-puckie! I only like formal sex. If the guy doesn't use the correct utensil to spread me, I get very upset.
sure you were. By chick he means inflatable blow-up star trek doll.
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Originally Posted by SifuPhil
Oh, sorry, Vic.
I would have replied sooner, but I was doing this chick I met an hour ago...
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The next morning, they had breakfast at a diner, and never saw eachother again...
