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Old 02-27-2023, 05:23 PM
 
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I kind of feel like if he had wanted to exchange numbers they would have done it at the party. Honestly I'd stay out of this one.
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Old 02-27-2023, 05:45 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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I hate when people try to set me up or match me with someone, so I wouldn't do it to anyone else. They met at a party and had a conversation. If he wanted to....he would have. I'd tell my friend to quit being thirsty or take matters into her own hands.
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Old 02-27-2023, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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From someone who has been the victim of setup attempts gone totally arye…..butt out!
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Old 02-27-2023, 10:05 PM
 
Location: As of 2022….back to SoCal. OC this time!
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Personally, if I was the ex gf, I would not want you to help my ex find someone new. Girl code.


Tho I’d just be helping him to reach her by giving him her number. They already met.

UPDATE: BUT, it doesn’t matter now anyway because they friended on Facebook tonight.
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Old 02-27-2023, 11:22 PM
 
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Tho I’d just be helping him to reach her by giving him her number. They already met.

UPDATE: BUT, it doesn’t matter now anyway because they friended on Facebook tonight.
Perfect. They can take it from here.
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Old 02-28-2023, 07:45 AM
 
Location: As of 2022….back to SoCal. OC this time!
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Perfect. They can take it from here.

Yes! She just wanted the chance for their connection to stay open. Maybe it will go somewhere & maybe it won’t but I am uninvolved.
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Old 03-01-2023, 05:49 PM
 
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I’m still wondering why someone goes to a party where the person they just broke up with will be attending. Not too festive.
You didn’t ask your husband what he thinks, since it’s his friend too? He might’ve had some good advice.
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Old 03-01-2023, 06:13 PM
 
Location: As of 2022….back to SoCal. OC this time!
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I’m still wondering why someone goes to a party where the person they just broke up with will be attending. Not too festive.
Tho they had an amicable breakup & it was a big party. They were both there for my husband & other friends, not for one another. They knew they didn’t have to be near each other or talk to the same ppl at all…but they did a little because they have a lot of mutual friends that were there. They are both professional adults. They aren’t the type to cause drama. My husband & I are not picking sides or anything like that. They were both welcome & I’m happy both of them showed up. It was a fun party.



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You didn’t ask your husband what he thinks, since it’s his friend too?

Yes ofc. But it doesn’t matter what we think now anyway.
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Old 03-02-2023, 04:53 PM
 
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Also, if he really wanted her number, he would have asked for it.
yoo pretty much contradict yorself:
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maybe he was too shy to ask.
she shoodve asked for his number. its the 90's, wombmen arr supposed to be liberated.
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Old 03-02-2023, 05:06 PM
 
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yoo pretty much contradict yorself:she shoodve asked for his number. its the 90's, wombmen arr supposed to be liberated.
At the end of a very pleasant social gathering, I asked a guy who I met if he wanted my phone number and he said yes. (Of course I put the burden on him to call me.) He has been my husband for forty years. This was the '80's.
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