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Old 07-22-2008, 05:58 AM
 
Location: Cairo - Egypt
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My parents , always make me angry, mad, and miserable .I really want to leave them and I will soon. we always have different thinkings , habits, actions. we always argue to find a compromise massive.
I totally agree with sartre( french thinker) when he said that hell is other pepole , you are always in sight of others ,you cannot be alone in life where there are others whatever any individual does ,thinks or feels is shaped by the gaze of the others . I am trying to know myself and to see the others but I cannot have good relations , my relations with other people are always poisoned . I dislike the argument , and now I don't even have the strength to make argument with anyone .
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Old 07-22-2008, 06:03 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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If your young...give it some time. Soon you will have your entire life to yourself and you may actually end up missing your parents. Seems impossible at this time I'm sure...but try to hang in there.
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Old 07-22-2008, 06:18 AM
 
Location: Cairo - Egypt
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If your young...give it some time. Soon you will have your entire life to yourself and you may actually end up missing your parents. Seems impossible at this time I'm sure...but try to hang in there.
I am 39 years old and I am not young
In reality I am old enough to be :
Mature
Have personel life and some experience
Good thinker
but I am not , I just want to be all that.
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Old 07-22-2008, 06:23 AM
 
Location: California
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If your 39, why are you arguing with your parents, do you live with them?
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Old 07-22-2008, 06:27 AM
 
Location: Cairo - Egypt
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If your 39, why are you arguing with your parents, do you live with them?
Yes , I live with my parents.
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Old 07-22-2008, 06:57 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Is that normal?
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Old 07-22-2008, 07:04 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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39! In that case get the heck out of your parents hair! No wonder you don't get along! They may want some time to themselves!
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Old 07-22-2008, 07:19 AM
 
Location: Cairo - Egypt
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Is that normal?
In the eastern sociaty , it is not allowed to children to leave their parents without marriage.Maybe for men can do that , to live with your own and have personal life . there are many in my country .but it is totally different for women . I must live with my parents unless I don't get married . if I intend to live with myself , I will be bad girl , naughty and mean. it is an immoral act here.
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Old 07-22-2008, 07:22 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Maybe that is normal where shes from, we do take a lot for granted here in the USA. Although after having watched "Failure To Launch" maybe its more common than I'm aware of. When I was 39 I had already been on my own for 21 years so who knows. Thanks monalisa, that answers that question
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Old 07-22-2008, 07:28 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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That is really rough. I don't have any advice. I'm sorry you are stuck in this situation.

Rcm58, we do have it good here in the USA.
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