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Get a copy of her cell phone records. If you can't get that, get a SIM card reader and get her SIM card out and download the information.
We have a software program at work(husband and I are the owners) that gives us all passwords used when anyone is on our network. Maybe you could get a one time use on line. I would watch everything.
Then, after you have what you need, show her what you have. I would not show her the pics or emails you just found. Save them for a "rainy day". No need to show her your hand yet.
Just get your "ducks" in a row. Don't yell. Try not to act differently. Go along, status quo. Silence is golden right now. She will continue to go about her "business" since she is comfortable and you will have a better idea of the whole story and how to proceed accordingly.
Nix my idea of calling the ex boyfriend just yet. Maybe you should do that when you are ready to confront her. If she denies the information, then bring in the call to ex boyfriend.
Again,this isn't your standard situation. She's the bigger techie and in charge of the phones & computers so that's out...
I'm just an old fashioned guy that relies on truth.
Again,this isn't your standard situation. She's the bigger techie and in charge of the phones & computers so that's out...
I'm just an old fashioned guy that relies on truth.
UGH!
Well then, the old fashioned route is the way to go. Smoke her out, call her boyfriend while she is there and watch the fireworks.
Well then, the old fashioned route is the way to go. Smoke her out, call her boyfriend while she is there and watch the fireworks.
I don't think she has his new phone #,but just the same.
Come to think of it,it would probably be easier for me to catch them on the phone. Although she's even got a pass code for her voice mail,we pretty much share the minutes each month on the cell phones.
Just make sure everything is really as it seems. I don't believe in coincidence, but I also like to be dead sure before I do something that changes my life.
Good luck, and you know where I am if you want to vent.
Just make sure everything is really as it seems. I don't believe in coincidence, but I also like to be dead sure before I do something that changes my life.
Good luck, and you know where I am if you want to vent.
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